by Anonymous on June 13th, 2008

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HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE FOUND THE ONE? OR IF YOU HAVE NOT FOUND HIM YET...

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  • by Under Pressure on June 15th, 2008

    Under Pressure

    I always heard people say you just know and never really knew what they meant until now. It just feels right; There is an understanding and you just know; He doesn't expect you to be perfect and adores you anyway; The thought of not having him around instantly makes your eyes water; He knows how you feel and when something is wrong; He does little things for you that he knows you like (just to make you smile); He prefers spending the evening with you instead of his buddies; He comes up behind you and whispers that he loves you in your ear; He is honest and open; He listens and supports you when you need him to. And you are and want to be all these things for him and more! That's when you know he is the right one.

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  • by daredevil on November 11th, 2009

    daredevil

    when beauty meets brain.

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  • by -NUNYA-- on November 11th, 2009

    -NUNYA--

    Your heart and mind will tell you.
    It is when you can't think of any other. When being apart makes you want him/her very much!! When you get butterflies in your tummy each time you see him/her. When the vibs between the 2 of you "melt" into one!
    When the other one tells you he/she feels the same way! +5

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  • by TechMan on November 11th, 2009

    TechMan

    When you're crazy about that person and feel like you can't live without that person.

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  • by Confuscious on November 11th, 2009

    Confuscious

    When you go through good and bad times together and you came out the other side stronger in your relationship, then you might start to think you have the right mate.
    The saying goes: 'When trouble walks in by the front door, love walks out the backdoor.'
    This saying is very true.
    Of course there's many other factors to consider, but this is one of the more important ones for me.

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  • by MasterS on November 11th, 2009

    MasterS

    With a whole lotta time, honestly thats the only way.

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  • by Nightrider on November 11th, 2009

    Nightrider

    Intuition

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  • by peacelove420 on September 30th, 2008

    peacelove420

    the best way to find out is, that mental connection. see there's this girl i met on a dating site, we are still friends but we connected in a way that's really weird. we know what's on each others minds,we say things at the same time. we never argue, we talk things out,we are very anylitcal and we eventually come to an agreement.have the same humor,we always try to read people, and we look at each other with a blank smile where your so happy you smile and don't even know it. now she's starting to really like me as much as i do. i'm just so damn nervous to kiss her. here's a really good example: last week she tells me i'm happy about this friendship we have, i'm really glad your a part of my life. funny thing is that 2 nights before that i wrote her a letter telling her the same exact thing, and asked her to go to my cousins wedding with me...she said yes and now i'm so nervous because i've never danced at a family function before....by the way i'm 23. so yeah this girl is just lets say one step closer to finding the one, or is the one i don't know for sure. but there is such a good chance for that.

    peace and lover everyone

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  • by LindsayJ. on June 13th, 2008

    LindsayJ.

    you just know

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  • by Choppin167 on November 12th, 2009

    Choppin167

    Sacrifice. The real one will sacrifice everything for you, and you will sacrifice everything for them. The sacrifice that is made will be the one that benefits the relationship the most.

    Let's say the husband wants to quit his job and take a new position in a state that's far away. The wife wants to stay put to be close to friends and family. There's no right or wrong answer here. The opportunity cost is measured, and whichever solution brings about the best situation with the least cost for the other person, should be the course of action chosen. The other person will have to sacrifice, understanding that this is the best thing for both people. When you have someone who truly understands this and is willing to abide by this, then you have found "the one."

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  • by evandad on November 11th, 2009

    evandad

    There all white gym style, but I mark the left ones with an L and the right ones with an R. Pretty smart, huh?

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  • by ritababy on June 15th, 2008

    ritababy

    i thought i found "the one" a few times and it didnt turn out that way. i would think u will never really know, u have to just take the chance that this one is the one. i think when im on my death bed ill finally know if i ever found the one.

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  • by harriet on June 13th, 2008

    harriet

    its amazing u feel really happy

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  • by create.sun on May 20th, 2011

    create.sun

    You just know and it cannot be put into words necessarily. I can tell you why she is awesome, but that will not tell you why I truly know in my heart of hearts why she is truly the one and only for me.

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  • by kento37 on May 18th, 2011

    kento37

    Put it this way. If it is right it is right. There's a feeling the two of you get when together. It's a meant to be feeling.

    Why is that? So look at this. Your mind is a collection of all the things you have agreed that is good as well as all the things that are bad to you. When someone comes along their looks first, then second their behavior. Behavior includes personality. There's an immediate feeling about it. It seems natural like you've been there before type of thing. And the same with the other person. The two of you agree on the same things, good and bad. There seems to be nothing out of place. It's the likes and dislikes the two of you resonate together on that bring you to one.

    Most people don't have this feeling. Most have some trouble with relationships. Today there is 1 in every 2 marriages end in divorce, and the question is why is that.
    It's simple. The two people in a relationship have more disagreements then agreement between them then the agreements. To the percentage of disagreements there are depends on whether they will stay married or not.

    So to get to your question have you found him or not comes down to just this. If there are more agreements then disagreements and to that percentages the relationship will last. So look for the feeling "it feels natural as if it has been before". It's meant to be. If it is, create the relationship.

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  • by frequentuser on June 15th, 2008

    frequentuser

    you'll know when you found the one when they cheat on you and you're reduced to nothing.

  • by Zack on November 11th, 2009

    Zack

    Only time will tell. Otherwise it's just a lot of hearsay.

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  • by Ganja Girl on November 11th, 2009

    Ganja Girl

    i dont, but i hope he will spend the rest of his life with me until i know for sure.

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  • by Darth NANAME on November 11th, 2009

    Darth NANAME

    When they're standing to your right. Otherwise, they'd be the left mate.

    ...

    I rarely know what I'm talking about.

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  • by DrMcNasty on November 11th, 2009

    DrMcNasty

    if your happy and stay that way then you have the right mate

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  • by Gingerminx on May 17th, 2011

    Gingerminx

    I wasn't. And after 26 years I am still deciding. :)

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