ANSWERS: 9
  • i might feel sad but dating for just 2 months, its a new relationship and too soon to take to mom... I would have to understand this time around since the relationship is way tooo new.
  • why didnt you go with him?
  • I'm in agreement with Anninna, after 2 months it's still a very new relationship & I wouldn't worry too much about it. As long as he still helps you celebrate your birthday before he leaves or after he gets back.
  • No, I wouldnt be upset, you have only dated for two months, they have known him, his whole life. You said they rarely see him, let him see his family in peace, any chance he does gets to go see them.
  • ...birthday issues? really? ur birthday is that important? i never really paid much mind to mine...although the people i tend to date are exactrly the same way...its just another day...like an anniversary...although i guess people like to celebrate those too...
  • Why didn't he take you with?
  • No, it would be hurtful but you could celebrate another time. If he hasn't seen his family for a while and see's you all the time, I'd give him a break. Understand where he's coming from and set up a special celebration for the both of you before of after he returns.
  • my wife and I have back to back birthdays. they are celebrated by both our families together. however the shortness of you relationship is probably why you are not included yet, I would wait and see how they treat you next year
  • After such a short period of time together, I wouldn't mind... Now if you had been together for a while, and couldn't go with him, I might be a little upset, but familia is very important to me.. so I wouldn't hold it against him

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