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  • Are you emotional over this guy? He probably thinks you are and doesn't want to get serious with you. The best thing you can do is say that "we had some good times, lets not let it get in the way of our friendship". Explain to him because you work in such close quarters together that you have to look at and treat the situation like two mature adults as both of you are in an adult situation. And explain to him that it is okay, to be friends with benefits, as long as you both are comfortable with it, so as not to negatively effect your work situation which could get blown way out of purportion if not put into check immeadiately. Since both of you work together, and did the mature adult thing either to satisfy a sexual need or wanton desire or whatever it is you did in the heat of passion. Both of you are obligated to talk about your feelings and emotions on the subject. You can quote me on that. Update; Best thing you can do is just talk to him and tell him how you feel about it.
  • We all make our own destiny. sometimes the end result is good, sometimes it is not.
  • I think you should get him alone and ask if he is okay with the past, and if so, not to shy away from you. Maybe he thinks you want more of a relationship than you really do, so clear the air, OR simply let it all go..
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  • You definately need to approach him on friendly terms and clear the air. He needs to know you realize it was a grave mistake but you don't want it to interfere with your job or your office relationship. If he is mature and understanding, he will be relieved and you both may become friends over it. Don't pressure him and if he doesn't want to meet, write him a note (no email) and leave it with him but leave it open to verbal discussion so he knows he can repent as well.

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