Should parents who adopt children ever refer to their children as "their adopted son/daughter"?
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Heck no!
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I think it depends on the circumstances. I have heard my mother refer to my brother that way when she is in a discussion about nature vs nurture or adoption or other matters where that information would be relevant. But, in introducing your child or just mentioning your child in conversation, it is wrong to make the distinction because it shouldn't matter. It is hurtful to the child and diminishes what should be a very powerful bond.
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I can't think of a reason why it needs to be stated. Family and friends already know and acquaintances who become friends will probably find out over time. Your children are your children..period. :)
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I wouldn't and my grandparents never referred to my mother like that.
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My youngest daughter is adopted and I sometimes state that when talking about adoption (such as this question). She is just as much my child as my other children and she knows it. I refer to her as being adopted not as my adopted daughter...somehow that is different to me. She knows I did not give birth to her, but she could not be more my daughter if I had.
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