I want to break up with my boyfriend because nothing feels the same anymore. He is very possessive and controlling but at the same time he can be lovely beyond belief. I don't want to hurt him but have never ended a relationship before. Advice?
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There is NO easy way. The sharper and firmer, the better. Meet him, tell him it is over (mean it and sound like you mena it), and never see him again. reject all calls, letters etc. Every attempt to soften it, to be nice, to make it easy, makes it harder. Short and sharp is the kindest way - though very hard to do. He *will* slag you off; call you names to your firends; explain why you never gave him a decent chance. Jilted lovers have done that since history (or at least, storytelling) began. Or, if you are not certain, don't do it. But never, ever, half do it. That maximises pain.
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