If i upset you in any way would you tell me what i did, or just ignore me?
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kourageous kitty
ANSWERS: 13
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I would tell you what you did then see what you had to say about it.
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I would ignore you for a while to simmer down and then tell you so we could speak calm and rational.
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let me put the same question to u?so if i upset u in any way at all would u tell me wot i did or would u leave me to wonder wot it was and not speak to me till i'd found out by speaking to other people that you'd slagged me off too,or would u be an even nicer person and just slag me off on ab to anyone and everyone who'd listen and without me even knowing you'd done it?.hhmmm,let's see now wot your answer will be?
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i would let it settle in me for a little before i decide what to do. if it's something that really, really upset me, i would have to talk to you about it...but if it was only a little upset then i'd just end up forgetting about it
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I would tell you what you did. I hate it when someone is mad at me and when I ask them what I did they're like "Well you should know." Grrr... I really hate that.
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I would let things cool down and then tell you that you had upset me and why. I would also take it off-bag if your e-mail was in your profile or ask that you contact me.
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I'd ignore it the first time. Talk to you about the second.
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depends. if you clearly know what you did. i'd avoid you like the plague until i could calm down and even act rationally. if you didnt know, then after i calmed down i'd approach you about it.
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I would allow some time for me to gather my thoughts, and then I would ask you about it and explain gently and respectfully what I thought happened between us. Then after hearing what you said, I'd either forgive you, or ask for your forgiveness for misunderstanding you.
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If you upset me, I would most certainly tell you what it was and why it upset me. I would do so at a time when I was calm and focused. Knowing myself,I am an emotional creature and can easily let me emotions speak for me. With this information timing is imperative when addressing this situation. For Example lets say that I overhear you talking to a mutual friend, and were making fun of my skinny (chicken legs). Because I had my two year old and my feelings were hurt, I acted like things were lovely and split with my baby. When the time arrived, I had been able to separate my emotions from the incident I called you. I first told you that my feelings were hurt. Next I told you that you were the one who hurt them. Whatever your response, be it cursing and hanging up to apologizing and promising that you never had intentions on hurting me. Hopefully I was prepared to accept things regardless. Trying to know always that beyond a point in life the chips just fall as they may.
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have u ever done as u have asked and not told a certain person that u r upset with them and then gone on to call the person who has no idea they have done anything wrong.i dont no u personally but u dont seem the kind of person to be this way at all as iv'e read quite a lot of yr qstns on ab and u come across as someone who worries wot others persieve them to be like.but when i read this qstn it made me think.and maybee u have indeed done what yr qstn asks and recently called a person something unkind for upsetting u when infact they ae oblivious as to wot they have done.....
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I tend to ignore people who bother me.
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You know by now that I would tell you in seconds after it happens.
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