Why do people pretend to be your friend...Promise to be there, and then turn their backs on you when you need them, but most of all why do I keep falling for their B/S?
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Jen-Jen
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Could be that your not allowing them to earn your trust or your selling your trust too cheaply. If we just give it away, waiting for a reason not to trust,chances are we are setting ourselves up in having our trust broken and stepped on.
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I wish I knew. XD It's hard to discern untold motives though, aside from feeling bad for thinking bad things about your friends, and even if you're convinced, maybe you stick with them because you hope that your perception is wrong about it. :/
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Yeah, people suck. Most of the time, friends, in my experience, anyway, arent worth a damn thing, but let downs, and lies. F em. I have made better friends online, maybe because there is only so much we can do for each other, and we dont expect much. Plus, our computers do all the work ! haha!
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You know, it's a cruel game of trial and error. It truly lets you see who your REAL friends are. Honestly, don't bother yourself with that. It's not worth your time or your energy. Invest your time in finding real friends who genuinely care about you and your feelings. In the last 10 years I've had many "friends" but at the end of the day, there is only one person I'd ever completely rely on and I've known her since the beginning!
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Maybe you are picking the wrong kinda friends, they are obviously not 'real' friends if they are not there when you need them. Life isnt ever easy honey, and in life you will make and lose friends.. the real ones are with you through it all.. hard times and good times.. the rest of them - well you never really needed those kind in the first place. Take care hon xx
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Yeah! Screw them! I know that feeling Sweetness! Kick those suckas to the curb! I fall for their same crap too! That's cause we are too trusting :(
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that's how you separate your true friends from your superficial friends. the people who are there when you need them the most, the others are just there for decoration.
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I would say that those types of people aren't friends at all. But sometimes, we fall for it because we just want to believe in people (you know...believe that they are good). But I always feel that if people don't want to be around for the bad times, then why should they get to be around for the good ones? I hope this isn't happening to you right now, but if it is, here's a hug. ((HUG))
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