as she asked, wait and let her set the pace, it will be worth it in the long run. good luck.

She's trying to keep you interested because you're giving her the attention she needs, but she isn't really interested or she'd break up with her boyfriend. Don't let her dangle the possibility of you two ever being together until she is actually single. Let her know you aren't gonna be interested until then or she'll just keep getting her "attention fix" from you, and that could get ugly with the boyfriend. Good luck :)

Heed her words. Getting someone on the rebound who feels rushed is not a good foundation for a new relationship. If it's meant to be it will happen. In the meantime, I encourage you to live your life to the fullest and not wait by the sidelines for something that may or may not happen.

Tell her that if she is truly interested in you and does not get along well with the guy she is with, then maybe it's time for a change. ...or try to find out exactly the reason why she stays with him.

While you are giving her time, be sure to give other girls time. That is; "play the field". Pining away for an unrequited love might play well in the movies but seldom ends well in the real world. You may find that there is another who will give you her time. Hopefully you are not the sort of fellow who only wants what he cannot have.

Sounds like a dangerous situation, mr. peine, be careful! This girl is basically telling you that she's interested in you, but isn't ready to anything about the situation to make things work out. Sounds pretty fishy, huh? No worries, I'll present to you a few basic rules that you always need to remember, no matter what. These might shed a little light to the situation and to how you feel about it. When a girl is taken, she's taken, and you're out. I don't care if she comes to your door, wearing nothing but a piece of incredible lingerie and starts removing even that - you just fetch a bathrobe, call her in, give her the robe and call a cab; you're not to touch her with a single finger. When she's not single, you keep out of the picture. This will make your life tremendously easier! Also, you tell me you love this girl. Guess what? It doesn't make any difference whether or not you do. What matters is that even though she might have interest in you, she obviously is still hung up on her boyfriend, because she isn't the one doing the walking. To make things even worse, you have feelings for her, but think about what you'd like from a girl, man. Would you like someone who's in a relationshi and goes telling other guys that she wants to be with them instead of the boyfriend? I know I wouldn't. So, these little points made clear, how do you feel? I feel like you should be stern and tell her that the minute she's single, you'd be glad to take her out on a date - I mean, you wouldn't want to rush into anything, right? - and before that, you just hang back and give her no response for whatever implications you may receive. Why? Well, as obvious as it should be, you want to figure out whether she's really genuinely interested, and exactly how interested she is. On the other hand, if it was me, I'd be taking a hike right about... a week ago. Girls who go around telling that kind of things while in a committed relationship are bad news, and that's plenty of reason enough to go for the numerous GOOD ones instead of this one. But suit yourself man - I hope you do the right thing.

i guarantee you there is a girl who wants to date you right now who is single and ready for you to take her out. the one you're "in love" with is not her. if you want a REAL relationship with a girl who is true to you, then the one who has been waiting, IS the answer.