Was in a LD relationship, got cheated on so many times, doesnt it just make u so angry? I dnt understand y people cheat, sometimes i just wanna snap. If your LD ralation gf was cheating, would you wanna no? Do you think some things are better left unsaid?
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Would make me angry at myself for allowing someone to cheat on me the second time. Yes I'd want to know, so I could get the hell out of there!
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Yes, i would want to know, whether long distance or not, if they love you, they won't that that's that!
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actaully i dont DO LDs PERIOD. AT ALL.... you should expect it as a given..(altough i realize im being hard, sorry, but it will help.. people can't help it, noone has that great of willpower anyways.
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What sort of LD relationship was it? A day away here and there or for months or more at a time?
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We were 1000 miles apart, we saw eachother like once every few months sometimes even longer. It was a very complicated situation. Here the thing, lets say your in a relationship and you found out that ur girl/boy was cheatin by invading his/her privacy such as myspace/facebook/e-mails etc......first off all you know your in the wrong for going through her personal stuff but would you confront her about that? if so how would you approuch it? I was in a similar situation n when i had confronted her she got mad at me for going ther her stuff and somehow i ended up the bad guy :S
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I personally don't think that L/D relationships work. I tryed it once. In some cases they do.
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I LD relationship should go like this. You guys have an open relationship, they do what they wanna do when ya'll are not physically together, but do NOT speak of what ya'll do when not together. But when you are physically together, and talk via internet, ya'll are 'together'. That makes it easy for both.
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I would never rather be duped than be informed. What makes it better, just because you don't know? You're still getting cheated on, so the same thing you're upset about, is happening, you just don't know it. What's better about that? You are fooled into a false sense of happiness and love? I agree, cheaters suck. It does anger me, but as long as GOD allows people to have free will, people will continue to cheat.
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A Long Distance Relationship would not be a relationship to me, unless they were away from home, say like in the military or at college. A long-distance relationship would be more like a pen-pal to me. You can't really have a relationship this way, in my opinion.
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I was in a ld relationship. The whole time i was faithful. I would want to know if she was cheating. I believed she was faithful but at the same time i was prepared to accept it if she wasn't. Never get into anything you can't accept if it goes bad...That's a golden rule for everything. Hope for the best prepare for the worst. As to why people cheat, it can be loneliness, temptation, pressure, stress, unfulfillment. You really shouldn't get angry over that. Does it suck and hurt, yes. Being in grief is fine...But being angry is going to just make it worse. Maybe it's just time to end the relationship? If they aren't willing to make it work then you can not force it. One person can not drag another through a relationship kicking and screaming.
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