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If he loved you he would say it, I'm sorry if that seems harsh but it's true. You haven't met his family could mean two things, 1. he is not serious about you 2. He is embarrassed of his family. I don't think 5 months is very long in the grand scheme of things. I would leave it a few more months before I started asking questions. If you really love him and want to be with him than you should give him a bit more time, you start pressuring him and he will walk.
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He will say it when he's ready to. You can love someone very much, but it sometimes takes courage to say it. I think my boyfriend and I didn't say it until 6 months into our relationship. In terms of his family... I didn't meet my boyfriends family until about 6 months into the relationship, and they live an hour away.
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It's only been 5 months... What happened to taking things slow? I doubt if I was dating someone for 5 months, i'd be bringing them around my family members. But, different strokes for different folks. And if he loves you, but never says it... I would find that to be a bit suspect. How do you know he actually loves you but he hasn't said it? Seems like there's more to the story and you're indenial. BUT, I could be wrong.
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I'd honestly talk to him about it. If he couldn't have a conversation like that and reassure you as to where he is after 5 months.... Then that isn't OK.
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you shouldnt be upset at all, but you can tell him you want to, and if he really likes you he will at least try to make it happen..(the parents out of state no way, you can't excpect him to like fly down there just cause your dating, but the i love you he could handle maybe, depending on how carefully he uses the word, i don't say it unless im SURE....so...i dunno, i would say don't be upset over something lke that. if he traets you right, thats the biggest thing. ask him how he feels about you, maybe, be careful not to scare him though, tell him you would feel better if he said it back or at least thought about it.
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guy speaking: if he cant say, i love you, then he is a victim of some kind of breakup from before. he is afraid to committ. he knows how to speak love with his actions from experience, but he cant say love because it causes him pain to say it.
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