My advice is to keep your legs closed until your oldest enough and smart enough to get yourself some birth control!

WHY ON EARTH DIDN'T YOU USE PROTECTION?!?!?!?! Okay, I'm semi-calm now... I think you should go to the doctor's office and explain what happened... If you're pregnant, you'll need to sit down with him, and your parents, and figure out a plan.

Firstly you should have used protection. I sudgest you buy a pregnacy test if that comes up positive,you need to go the docters and decide what you want do.

honey dont listen to the bitter old haggs! you can go to plan parrent hood and they will help you out in many ways and there is tanf/foodstamps, medicade,and wick that will help ALOT!

Wow. What were you thinking when you did this?

ok so disregard any negative comments people are going to leave here, obviously you are asking for help not to be critisized. I do have a question though, you said you were already 3 weeks late for your period when you had sex with him but were you sexually active before that? Being 4 weeks late for your period is a lenghty period so yes it is possible you could be pregnant. You are going to have to go to the doctor because even if you are not they will have to determine why you are 4 weeks late. If you are pregnant make your own decision and do not let anyone influence it. If your not ready for a baby then your not ready, if you feel wrongly about abortion and feel you can man up and do this I wish you all the best!!! It will all work out regardless, thats what life is about! GOOD LUCK!

Take a pregnancy test and/or go to the Health Unit. There's not point in freaking out until you have something to freak out about. I definetly don't envy your situation. You should always use protection, not only to prevent pregnacny but to prevent any STD's...you don't know whats out there.

Ok so you mad a mistake just like many other people have. So you can learn for it and change. there is many programs to help Free clinics, Planed parent hood, Councelors, A church, Goverment. If your pregnant or not. Is this going to change what you are doing that is my question. Everything will be ok! Oh and Jesus loves you and he will help if you ask him.

well i dont think you are pregnant only if u had a sex just a week ago.as u said,u missed your period by 3 weeks.that means your expected date was somewhere 2nd of may.and u had sex on 16th of may.so u r not at all pregnant if u had sex after first week of may. but u may be pregnant if u had sex before first week of may.

1.) Stop having unprotected sex. 2.) Go to the drugstore and buy a home pregnancy test. If you are pregnant talk to a trusted adult about it. If you are not, learn from this experience. 3.) Make an appointment with planned parenthood to learn about contraception options. Get your boyfriend to go with you.

Well, it's a little late for the advice I wish I could have given you. But if you think you're pregnant, go get a home pregnancy test and check. Go to a doctor to be double-sure if you want. If you aren't pregnant, use this experience as a learning one: ALWAYS USE PROTECTION. My sister had her first kid at 16, and she's now pregnant with another at 18 because her idea of protection was the pull-out method. If you are pregnant, then all I can say is that I wish you the best of luck and remember that anything you choose to do with the baby (keep it, abort it, give it up) is your right.

i have found in my experiences, of mistakes and misjudgments, that i have made in the past, the best thing to do when you are worried, is to get the facts. unfortunately you can't change the past or the mistake, however you can learn from the experience. get a pregnancy test as it will give you an answer either way. you may or may not like the answer, but it is far better than beating yourself up emotionally and allowing it to affect your whole life. dont be so hard on yourself, there is a lot of help out there and a lot of caring people. it is important to try and face something rather then try and bury it away where your mind can go into overdrive over potential conclusions.

Take a pregnancy test! And discuss your options with the father. And maybe you should consider saving up for an abortion it is legal and in most places you can get one at 17 but if you cant in your state you can go threw a court system that can act as your parent so you wont have to tell yours. It'll run you about 400-700. Or you can have it and give it up.

You should take a home test or go to a clinic to see of your pregnat. If you are then you need to know how far along you are so that you know what ALL you options are. I know your human you make mistakes believe me ive made so many and dont know how many more im going to make. you need to learn from them and move on theres lots of help you can get out there but you and your bf need to sit down and think about what the best thing for both of you is. if its abortion fine theres lots of clinics that can help you with that there also adoption im sure thweres a lovely couple out there that would love to have the baby . And if your going to keep it then thats ok too but it up to you two just know having a baby is very hard and even harder when your young and not ready for it. I wish you the best GOOD LUCK

Well, did you ever find out if you were pregnant???

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. 1st thing you do is get a good pregnancy test to make sure if you are or not. Then if you find you are you handle it the same as of you did not put the seatbelt on before you crashed. You take the hit, and suffer whatever wounds you received and work to recover. I guess fortunately for you, the law allows you to take the cowards way out and destroy your child because you don't want to be adult about the aftermath of acting adult. Should you go that route just be clear.......it is not tissue like some tumor. That is your son/or daughter being developed. If you are adult as you thought you were when you got naked on your back with some boy you may not even remember or care about 19 months from now, you will do the adult thing and stick it out. It won't be easy, certainly not as easy as it was to get naked, but it is so worth fighting for. That being shares half your DNA, it is a part of you. There are many resources outside your family (I am sure you will get all their support) to get educated, and help caring for your child. What you have to ask, is your child worth the fight or just an inconvenience? Anything that is worth it is worth fighting for.