To me, that doesn't seem fair. I assume you've talked to him about it. Why does he say he doesn't want you to have his, yet expects you to give him yours?

No. What he is doing is extremely smart. Releasing his inforamtion to anyone can result in others finding it out. He most likely trusts you, and is probably happy that you trust him that much. He probably is thinking, "what if info slips?" he probably thinks it can happen to him and to you. So, most likely he's jsut being careful.

I'd be more than upset...He very well could have something to hide...

tell him to fucking trust you or else you'll change all of your passwords so he won't know either^_^.

People deserve some privacy. I assume he didn't ask for your passwords yet refuse to give you his, because that wouldn't be fair

Lady comrade; Even if during dating he is always upon you it doesn't give him the position to be the first knowing all "secret"s of the partner!

change. your. passwords. NOW! then, dont share them with him

If I were you I'd change all passwords without any explanation. He doesn't deserve to be trusted if he doesn't know what trust is.

Chance your pin and pass words. If he can't trust you to be respectful of his "privacy" then he NEEDS to earn yours. He maybe hiding something or he may have control issues. Please be very careful!!! I just left one that started out just like this. By the end, I couldn't use my own bank card to get groceries. (to stupid to know how to shop properly) No friends/ working/ picking a daycare totaly isolated. He broke up with me started seeing others, but I was told if he ever caught me with someone; he'd kill the guy and me. I hope this is not in your future!!!! God Bless!!!!!!!

Change your passwords, and especially your pin number. They always specifically say not to tell anyone about the latter, to never even write it down. It's not because you live with him that he has to know all that, you have the right to your privacy as well.

husband ok boyfriend hec no! Why does he get to know your passwords but you can't know his...and your pin number? Doesn't sound right to me. I never gave that info out to boyfriends, my husband is a different story but still he doesn't know everything. Everyone should be intitled to some privacy.

change your pass words now sweetie. dont be upset, just tell him your passwords are yours to know and only for you to know. i would make them all the same...like this for example. wish23g56

I'm going to agree with everyone on this. Your passwords and Pin number needs to be kept secret. If you and him break up, then there is a possibility that he would creat a credit card in your name and put you through so much debt. Plus, him wanting your passwords to your e-mail means that he dosn't trust you. He has the choice to go into your e-mail on a daily basis and check to see if you're talking to other guys on the internet which is a major trust issue. Change them ASAP!!!

If he's being such a A$$hole about it then he's got something to hide. But it also depends.. did he openly ask for your passwords and what not? or did you just tell him? If i was in your situation and my girlfriend asked for my passwords and what not and i told her and she didnt tell me hers i would be hurt and let down. If he doesnt feel like he can trust you, the girl he's living with and been with for almost a year and hopefully the girl he's gonna end up marrying then he needs to rethink why hes with you, and you need to rethink why your with him. relationships only work if both people are open and talk about anything and everything thats bothering them. Just bring it up in a conversation, tell him that you want to talk to him and tell him why it bothers you. Dont accuse him of anything or question his loyalty because that will just make him mad. Just calmly talk to him and tell him whats on your mind.

change your passwords and get a new pin asap....oh yea, and one more thing, tell him to go fuk himself.

If you're daft enough to give out your personal information to someone you've been with less than a year that's up to you but don't expect him to be as stupid. Seriously love, I wouldn't trust my own mother with my bank pin number! Do you not listen to the ad's about personal security?

I would probably NOT share anything else in the future with him, if you are still with him thats for sure. Maybe even go so far as to change everything you've shared with him thus far as well. I don't think he's hiding anything. Sure, its awesome to be with someone as long as a year -- but you still aren't married. I'd only share info like that with whoever I'm marrying. My fiance does happen to know a few of my passwords and such now -- but we've been together three years and I know his info too! Then again why did YOU share your info with him in the first place?

A controlling person. He will control your life forever. Find someone else.

Passwords are private. I don't ask for my partners and he doesn't ask for mine. If you don't trust him then leave if you do then don't worry about it. You don't have to give him your passwords, if you chose to you cant expect him to return it. If on the other hand he insists on knowing yours but won't share his then change your passwords and tell him that if it really is no big deal he wont be upset.

From the way he's acting it seems like he's trying to hide something. Personally me and my girlfriend know eachothers passwords to everything but our email. The only reason i dont want her to have my email stuff is because i buy stuff online and when i buy stuff for her or us and i want to give it to her as a gift she would find out. but other than that were completely open with everything. you could say that if he's got nothing to hide then he should be able to give you all his info like you did for him... but he could also have trust issues... does he constantly question you after youve gone out with friends and what not? or anything like that? If he does then it would sound like he has a trust issue and the only way your gonna help him get over that is take it slow... If he doesnt wanna give you all his passwords, just ask if it would be ok to get his myspace or facebook password so you can put something up for him or something like that and put up some new pictures of the two of you or something like that. then he'll slowly start to feel like he can trust you. Just take your time and sit him down and talk to him, without the computer without the tv, just the two of you alone on the couch or in bed talking about it, just ask him if theres a reason that he doesnt want to give you the info... does he not trust you, does he think your gonna give it out to other ppl, etc? just dont say "What do you have something to hide that you dont want me to see?" cuz that would just start a fight.

Why would he need all your passwords and pin numbers?Why would you need his?

did you willingly give the information up and just straight out tell him? otherwise, it's not his fault unless he specifically asked for it. If he doesn't want to give it out then it's fine just like how you're comfortable with telling him, he's comfortable where his privacy is. however, if he specifically asked for yours and he refused to give his own.. i'd be a little upset.

It should go both ways. I'd change all of yours without saying anything. I'd be very upset.

Change your passwords. I was with someone who I tried to be open with and fair to to help him. No way! Got screwed. If he won't give things easily, forget it. The person that cares least about whether the relationship continues or not is the least likely to compromise.

That sounds like the beginning of a very very bad situation. I would recommend you change all your passwords and pins NOW.

You need to get a f***ing backbone and stand up to this a** hole. Change your bank number and ALL of your passwords and then tell him if he doesn't like it then tough s***. You have as much right to your privacy as he does. Then you need to kick his stupid a** to the f***ing curb. If you don't do this you're a f***ing idiot and a coward. Quite frankly the fact that you haven't been effective in standing up to him sooner doesn't exactly endear you to anyone with half a brain.

I'm in a marriage where my spouse wants all of her own accounts, own digital cameras, own computors ETC..So I know what it's like. She doesn't even want me to open mail addressed to her......She believes that even in marriage.....there's privacy. Yes....I don't allow her using any of my accounts either....