ANSWERS: 4
  • You say no. Absolutely no. If he is only using you for sex, then you have 2 problems. 1) He doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you....he wants to be with some other girl. That means that your heart is going to be strung along until he finally decides to stay with the other girl. 2) Its not fair for the girl who he is developing a relationship with. Both of you deserve so much better. You need to like someone who is going to like you back...not just use you for physical closeness.
  • G'day Anonymous, Thank you for your question. Try and find a guy that likes you for more than the sex. If he's not interested in something more, look for a guy that is. Otherwise, you will end up with your heart broken. Regards
  • "Benefits" are the way people show their love for each other. Tenderness and passion. Why cheapen it when there is no love present ?
  • I wanted to add. He's seeing another girl, but wants you for sex. Does he think you are a free hooker ? This is disrespectful to you and not fair to the other girl either, you should not see him any more.

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