Is it so bad to have multiple sex partners- talking 8 in one year, and not having developed any real relationship with any of them bc they didn't see the point they just did it for the pleasure of having sex?? Is there something wrong with this person?
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If this person had a great time and didn't care that no relationships were developed, then I see nothing wrong with this person. Sex addicts don't do it for the pleasure, they do it because it is the only way they feel they can achieve human contact. If s/he really did have a lot of fun in the sex, then sex addiction isn't occurring.
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No problem as long as nobody is hurt. It would be better not to do this all their life, in my opinion. But that's just me.
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Not if the partners were both aware that it was purely a physical exercise. The 'wrong' would be if one person is using the other or misleading them. For me, casual sexual contact is just shallow, but I know some people who see it as merely 'fun' or the satisfying of an appetite, similar to going out to eat in different restaurants. It's easy to be attracted to someone but harder to find someone you want a long-term relationship with. I imagine that if this pattern of behaviour continued for too long a person would eventually feel empty and jaded.
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No there is no problem at all ask any of us swingers and they can tell you it is like Tony Tiger says, "It's grrreat"! There is nothing wrong with this person they just enjoy sex and when they find the right person they will develope a good relationship! in the mean time remember this, "Sex washes off but Love lasts!"
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It is beyond doubt that it is bad to have multiple sex partners irrespective of the number involved. The issue of real relationship in such situations should not arise at all. Sex as God planned it will lead to much of the best in life with just one condition - it has to be pure sex within marriage. Outside the purview of marriage, misused sex would bring untold miseries and many telling consequences. A person with such indulgence is too casual on the question of sex and should be advised to seek medical counseling.
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