ANSWERS: 6
  • The answer to your insecurity is not to try to 'feel better'. That goal will only make you temporarily less unsatisfied. Your goal should be to trust in and communicate with your boyfriend. Ask him to write you a letter that explains in detail why you are better than all those other crazy ho's, and why he loves you more than he ever loved them. If he's not willing to put that kind of effort into your relationship, RUN. If he is, then take his letter, and read it every morning and every night. Make yourself live up to his feelings for you, and *own* those things that he loves. Over time, you'll find your insecurities pop up less and less and your ownership of your best attributes will make you a more attractive person on all levels to all people -- most of all, him. :)
  • I've been through this. First of all, are you sure he's not encouraging them in any way? Most guys, even if they care about their girlfriend, like to have that stroke to his ego that comes with having girls chasing him. If they really are crazy ex's he should be telling them to leave him alone. I mean I can understand one crazy ex, but tons? If, by chance, they aren't doing anything disrespectful to you, but just have crushes on him, then don't worry about that. Just enjoy the fact that you got the popular guy and they didn't. My main point is, dont' worry about the girls, worry about how he reacts to them.
  • Just knowing that you are most likely a future member of the crazy exes club yourself should be comfort enough! Maybe he is just good enough that they can't replace him.
  • Think about it, he's with you and going to bed with you, not them. It's okay for a guy to like a few ego strokes once in awhile but never if it comprimises the greatest ego stroke of all: a healthy relationship with a fine girl. However, maybe you can stroke his ego a little more yourself so he feels better in the relationship?
  • Consider yourself lucky! You got the man. Girls will be girls, and you can't help it. Obviously you want to be his only girl. And you are. You have nothing to worry about, since it's his ex's. Just think about, he's your boyfriend, and your in love.
  • Ha-ha-ha. Sounds like he's encouraging them. Sorry.

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