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  • That's for YOU to decide. Can you handle your boyfriend dating your best friend? Can you handle your best friend dating your ex-boyfriend who dumped YOU to date HER? You may just want to take a break from both of them for a while. It will tear you up every time you see them together. Do everything you can to avoid them until you think you can handle it. (May not be until you have a new BF of your own...) I think they BOTH should understand. Don't expect it to be easy, and don't expect it to be fast. You've lost someone (TWO, actually), almost a death to you. You MUST go through a grieving process. You got a double-whammy there! Here are some suggestions to help get over a breakup... They should work for your breakup with both of them - http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2762628
  • I feel so badly for you and know your pain. I wish I could wave a magic wand and have you not care and just let him go. This scenario isn't about her. It's about him and yourself. He's the moving party and sounds like a total jerk doing something like this that he knows would hurt you. He sounds uncaring and I hope you wouldn't settle for someone uncaring. I don't know your age, but it sounds like something a jr. high boy would do.
  • A good girl friend would take your feelings into consideration. Not only your hurt feelings about the boy dumping you, but how you would feel about her dating him. This is why girlfriends should stick together. There are plenty of "fish" in the sea and boys aren't worth messing up a good girlfriendship.

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