first off, you need to decide whether to do it at all. as long as you are consenting and it isnt some kind of "taking advantage" situation, it may be enjoyable and you can think about proceeding (cautiously). be aware that it may make the friendship awkward, or it may make it that much better. for many people, it goes either way: relationships are ruined or people are very happy in "friend with benefits" arrangements. i have had friends with benefits before and ive never had regrets, but thats only because ive been VERY selctive with who i do these things with. not everyone is a good candidate. the choice is ultimately up to you. so on to the real question- the other issues are easily fixable: for the hair: i would recommend CAREFULLY shaving the inner lips and lower area.(only where hair appears). think of where the actual act would be (for the guy, i consider it an act of more or less being considerate while theyre doing this for you). trim the top (if you leave any hair at all, many people shave it all completely, which is a definite option, and your choice). lastly make sure it has an overall "well-kept" look. a mild regular lotion may be a nice addition. remember, make sure you do this shortly before you and him get together, to avoid stuble. but dont rush- razor burn is never helpful. for the female odor: if you decide on a date to do this ahead of time, and it isnt completely spontaneous, youll have time to prepare. most guys are well aware what a female body entails, and many actually like the more milder smells. there are a wide range of smells, and they depend largely on diet and personal hygiene. wash well, you can use a mild soap on the outer parts, wear cotton crotch panties to help air out, and DONT use any crazy products- you shouldnt need them. do these things for a couple days, drink lots of water, change your underwear and give a little wash right before the event, and that should take care of it. one more thing to consider before agreeing: what are his motives? does he expect something in return? are you prepared to say yes? no? before agreeing, you need to consider what may come up (everything) and plan exactly what your response will be (yes or no). for example: what will you do if he wants you to give him oral after? if he suggests sex? if he INSISTS sex? what will you say? what will you do if things get out of hand? be prepared and know what you are willing, and not willing, to do, and then dont be afraid to put that plan into action if and when a situation arises. be confident in your choices and stick to them. good luck and let me know if you have any questions. :)

never turn down the chance off oral sex its the bees knees.also shave completly he will love the trouble you have gone to. more so if you have known him a long time