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  • you need to be yourself, and try to find someone that will counterbalance your quietness like someone that talks alot or really like how shy u r. but dont pretend to be someone your not.
  • There's someone out there for every one. Whoever you find will absolutely love you for who you are. PS there are over 6 billion people in the world :) don't lose hope!
  • I love boring people! Seriously though, if you are bored, you are also boring.
  • Everyone's afraid of being bored around someone new and having nothing to say. You're not alone! It's the main reason people are afraid of starting relationships. That giant looming question 'what if we run out of things to say and it's just really awkward?'. Though most people don't take it to the extremes you have in calling yourself a bored person. Do you like being bored because it allows you to be indifferent which means you don't have to feel at all? It's like a defense mechanism against the world. But try and remember even though your blocking out the bad stuff you're also stopping the good stuff. I mean imagine if you met someone who totally lifted you out of your indifferent haze and made your world light up. If you like someone just talk to them and if there really is chemistry there the conversation will just flow, I promise. By thinking about what you're going to say beforehand or even what you mightn't be able to say, you're justing trying to control the uncontrollable. Just give yourself totally to the situation and whatever happens happens. It might be horrible and awkward or it might be wonderful but I promise you it won't be boring and even if the risk doesn't work out you'll be a hundred times happier if you go for it.
  • I don't think you should hold back. There is someone for everyone. You may find someone who is quiet like you, or maybe someone who talks a lot. You may be the perfect balance to someone else's life. Not everyone wants a man who talks all the time. Sometimes it is refreshing when someone is a man of few words.
  • Find you a man who shares the same interests as you do. You might find that you are able to open up a little more. Also, a lot of guys don't like chics who talk too much! Not talking a lot leaves a lot of mystery for a guy and might just be the very thing that keeps him interested! Just don't go for a guy who likes too much fun in a wild way!
  • look for a girl that talks a lot - not hard to find one of those.
  • Maybe if you stop holding back your feelings, you won't be bored.
  • Do you mean to say, "boring" instead of "bored?" I am sure you are not boring. Just because you don't talk much doesn't mean to say you are boring. A lot of people just talk about nothing to cover silences. Sounds like you only speak when you have something to say and that is a good thing. Salaam
  • Maybe if you had a partner you would have someone to do interesting things with!
  • your grammar and spelling is terrible! but, looking past the terrible English, you need to gain some more confidance. i personally am a boring person, i am lazy and boring. i admit it, BUT when you like someone you need to do something about it, technically, you really should have a relationship with someone who shares similar passions to you, you surely would have something in common. you dont have to be an interesting person to have a relationship.. just ask him about your girl's life/ passions, take an interest in their life, talk about things you do, school, work, whatever. dont be afraid to express your opinion, you may think its boring, but others will respect your thoughts. and dont worry, im sure there are more boring people than you. girls like to talk alot anyway, just be a good listener, and do exciting things with eachother.. go out and have fun.
  • Thanks everyone for your comments appreciate it much Thank You :)
  • dont be afraid to stars a relationship , and your not boring , u just need to have more self confidence and know how to express your thoughts more often and be your self , there are soo many things to talk about in this world , u just gotta find the things u like to talk about , and share it with others , be your self !
  • You shouldn't have a relationship if your heart isn't going to be in it. And, if you are gonna be bored all the time that's what will be the case. That isn't fair to anyone you might be involved with. You have to learn give and take. If you don't, then, yeah, don't waste anyone's time.

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