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  • That is exactly the point.... There IS NO point to loving someone who doesnt love you back. Plain and simple.
  • There's no point in it ! You can't help the way you feel, but, if that person won't love you back, it's best to just move on !
  • It's hard to say. You can't help it when you love someone, but you don't experience true love unless the person loves you back. I would recommend finding someone who DOES love you back so you can experience love in a greater and better way.
  • The point is, you learn a valuable lesson for your next relationship(s.) What you will accept, what you won't, and what you should look for in a partner, and what you shouldn't.
  • The point of loving someone who does not love you back is that of inspiration. Start writing, singing, praying. Your mind will open to new and wiser things with this situation.
  • "The most beautiful things in life are those that cannot be obtained." This phrase can be taken many different ways.
  • Who ever said there was a point to love? There's not, really.
  • I guess you can hope they may one day begin to. It happens occasionally.
  • Personally, I see no point. Of course, however, it's often not very simple to just up and stop loving someone. But the mind is a very powerful thing. And if you simply keep reminding yourself that you're wasting your time, eventually things will get easier. I stopped loving someone because I thought they didn't love me back. But a year later here we are. And he does love me. So if it's meant to be, it'll find a way. No need to stress yourself over something that you have no real control over.
  • you shouldnt try to stop loving someone! why would you? if you have love admit it, and even if that person doesnt love you back or the same way its ok, because by admitting it and being honest to yourself you can learn acceptance :)
  • Beats me
  • Lesson of the year for me... Just walk away now. There really is no point.
  • Loving someone is cool and its completely under your control. You can love someone no matter how badly they behave or how little they consider you and you still enjoy it. It's fun to make them laugh, help them with their homework or something and just admire them. If you really love someone then quite often they will return that love. But it's not a tit for tat deal and you can't put conditions on someone and expect them to love you. If you love someone, then just enjoy loving them.
  • there is no point..there are those who get that and walk away without wasting time and then there are those who stick around hoping and obsessing..getting depressed that the one person they love doesn't love them back..which one are you? the one who knows there is someone for everyone out there and goes to find that person..or the miserable human with a lot of time to waste?
  • Many of the best love stories, love songs, poems, etc., were written by those who loved someone who didn't love them back. "Unrequited Love" is, for many, inspiration.
  • isn't that what love really is, to love even when you are not loved back, anyone can love those that love them, but real love is when you love when there is no recipication That is the point I think
  • beats loving no one...
  • Sometimes it's not an option. You can't help but love someone who won't reciprocate the feeling you have towards them.
  • ok peeps. im not assuming that everyone is catholic/christian here, or even of faith, but check this out.. especially the part on loving your enemies (i for one could at times view the ones ive loved at enemies..) http://www.bible-knowledge.com/power-of-love.html *open minds* to Indigo.. the connection of true mutual love is ignited from the start.. it can not just "happen".. sometimes what will happen is 1) someone will fall for their friend (their friend having nothing but friendship love for them) and then one day they try to date and the friend who was in love gets led on and the other friend realizes eventually that they aren't in love and cant make themselves fall in love or, 2) two people will date and not be in love with each other but settle down and claim to be 'in love', perhaps maybe because their friendship love for each other is so strong and they dont know what true love is. -->>hence the difference between true love and friendship love.<<-- ::never settle:: true love isnt when you find someone you can live with, its when you can find someone you cant live without ^-^ <3
  • How you feel about someone has nothing to do with how they feel about you. The point is, YOU feel good about it. (Or, at least you SHOULD.)
  • There isnt a point, and very bad if there is a restraining order in place
  • The point is that you will always have that person in your heart and cherish the times that you had with them. In my opinion, life brings many pains and gains. If you learn to appreciate what you have, you may slowly be able to move on. What you had in the past, remember what you learned from this person and just take the good.
  • There is no point. Try and move on. Time is a great healer.
  • Optimistic view: so you can learn and grow Pessimistic view: so you can suffer Realistic view: we all go through it, both being loved and loving...
  • i dunno ive tried asking my self the same question my ex says he dont know how he loves me ?????
  • no point. sometimes life is painful, and i think this is the most painful thing i've ever experienced. can't live loving them, can't live without loving them.
  • you go to leave it behind and search for something else cuz there is no result unless by a miracle.
  • Sweety thats a waste of time abd effort! why would you want to love somebody that doesnt feel the same? move on, pain is only temporary!
  • You hope that the person will accept and reciprocate the feelings that you have for them. Often times you end up feeling you are being tortured.
  • There isn't ... it is time to cut the ties and MOVE ON !
  • there is no point, it's a waist of time. time to move on.
  • There is no point to it. You must move on.
  • maybe they will just like you back. wouldnt that be enough?
  • to tell you the truth, im in the same situataion i really like this guy, like i am in love with him we went out before but broke up. then we had a thing over the summer but now we both have new loved ones but i am stll head over hills in love with him and i dont know what the point is and why is still like him but try to move on that what i am doing but its still hard.
  • Because love should never be given in order to recieve. That is the law of love and it happens of its own accord. But not always in the way we want for it to happen or in the ways that we expect that it will. Sometimes... it is healthier to just experience love in giving it and never recieving anything what so ever in return. I highly reccommend it to anyone... It is its own reward!
  • There is no point - why waste your time? Expend that energy on someone who will love you back. Be rewarded for your efforts.
  • Exactly. Good point.
  • But you wont know if they will / wont love you it you don't try. You never know what can happen in a day :o)
  • If you've already tried with that person and know they won't love you back, there is not point. However, if you haven't tried, you won't know if that person won't love you back until you do.
  • you dont love someone in order for him/her to love ypu back..But if you really love someone,you'll try your best for him/her so he'she would be happy no matter he/she loves you..That's the real love..Giving without expecting any rewards
  • What the hell is wrong with everyone? All I've read is "there is no point." No! This is not true. Loving a person doesn't mean you constantly want to make them yours, loving someone means that you just want them to be happy, no matter what, even if it means giving up everything you have for them. I love someone, and yet, they pretty much hate me. But I'd do anything for them. Just because someone won't return what you have to give, doesn't mean it's not worth it.
  • love dat person...even more strongly... if ur love is true, u will get it back oneday with double impact. because LOVE is more powerful than hate.
  • there is no point, u better move on. Even if u can mange to stick around and make somehow love u (may be after a lot suffering), u will finally find urself in the opposite side of the begining. so it aight gonna work.
  • It's not a point or a choice, either you do or you don't. I've learned you can't make yourself fall out of Love any more than you can make yourself fall in Love. That wisdom I found on AB. So I gave up, I'll Love him until....

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