No it's not wrong but you need to let her know exactly how you feel.

It is definatly not wrong to not want a threesome. If you are not comfortable with the idea, don't let her try to talk you into, either. You are already preparing for this to damage your relationship, should you go though with it. Which is pretty much a guarentee that it will. Talk with her about it, and come up with another fantasy that you and she will be will to live out.

Although it's rare that a guy doesn't want to do that, it is not at all wrong. Everyone has their own comfort levels with various sexual adventures. If you are not into the idea, then make that clear. You both need to be comfortable for it to work at all.

Hiya! Of Course Not!!! Don't be pressured into doing something you are not comfortable with. If you girlfriend has any respect or love for you, she will not continue the idea. Hope This Helps!!! Dawn http://www.swingtowns.com

sounds good, i hope she appreciates you

Much earlier in my life, I had the opportunity to do a couple of threesomes (1 MMF and 1 MFF); while they were a great deal of fun, I would not have considered any of the girls my girlfriends. Rather, these were just some chicks that I was dating/fucking. Once I was in a serious, committed relationship, I never considered a threesome. Once I fell in love, I was not interested in sharing and could not imagine seeing her with someone else. For what its worth this has worked for quite a while - we have been together since 1986 and remain very happily married.

its wrong how can you be intimate with one person, and then invite them into your relationship, it will be fun at first but afterwoods your wife will hate you for it, she will probably curse you out for doing it, if you want another girl just cheat..doing a threesome is a sure fire way too ruin your relationship...if she really wants to do it, play stupid! let her do it on the side then she will feel guilty, try even harder to give you a girl to make up for what she did..then she'll drop it thats the only way..unfortunatly if you want to keep her this is what your going to have to do to maintain that respect in your relationship because if she invites another girl how long do you think it will be before she invites another guy....then your relationship is over....to salvage it...because you love her...your gonna have to play stupid and let her do it with one of her freinds...I know form experience

Get this web book, "step by step threesome" by Suzy Bauer. Educate yourself before doing anything or passing judgement. You and the Love of your life should both sit down together and read this book. My Fiancee has had a FFM threesome with our soon to be brides made and a failed attempted MMF when in college. (trust me i had a heck of a time getting over it, but i'm no longer insecure either) My love for her has not changed and I never used this against her in any way. She felt so bad because of what I may think of her & many nights I had to hold her & comfort her & whipe the tears away. Actually it has made us closer and made me a stronger man. If it is meant to be nothing on earth will change your love for each other. Remember that the experience is what you would be looking for. I will say this, through this topic you will learn so much about yourself as a Man. It is a whole lot more involved than just the sex act. Your male ego would have to be under control & both of you guys would have to be fully aware of your position with each other. Something like this will not work period if either of you are insecure, Talk about your insecurities & feelings for each other. Respect how you both feel & do not pressure. The idea will have to grow on you, untill you feel secure enough to share, knowing that each will remain the same person as before. If this is her idea remember it's only an experience she is looking for, you know the whole "taboo" is interesting. There is nothing wrong or dirty about sex period. Even if you enjoy an experience with a 3rd party it is still good ol fasion sex with a twist of social "taboo". Your ok if u do & your ok if u don't. See Love is real & sex is real. Married people cheat for sex all the time & they in Love. So there is a real need obviously for sex. Ok, now these same cheaters stay together, trying to hide it, but they Love so they try to keep the relationship. So feel secure that your woman means everything to you and that she feels the same. KNOW that you are the best sexually to her regardless, I'm sure she has had sex with someone besides you, but guess what she is with you and not going anywhere because you mean the world to her. It's just an experience " don't be scared" Have a GREAT TIME!

what's with all the caps? Is that a title of a book? No, not wanting a 3-way is not wrong