How far is too far to go when your girlfriend lets you put pink fuzzy handcuffs on her? my girlfriend suggested this but what does she want me to do to her?
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It sounds like she is sexually submissive so to a certain extent she wants you to do as you please! I would try things out, and agree a safe word so she can tell you that she doesnt like something, the likelihood is that the word "no" will be used as part of the roleplay rather than actually meaning no, so a safe word will help. Think about things you think she would like - from discussions you have had in the past, e.g. would she like you to tweak her nipples? would she like you to "force" her to give you a blow job/ have sex? would she like you to piss all over her or make her lick your ass? How far do you think she will think is too far? Bear that in mind because she is putting her trust in you so you need to think carefully about what she will be "happy" to be "forced" to do!
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She wants to freak with you. She's probably deeper into to it than you think and trying to introduce it to you slowly. If I were you I would start reading about BDSM. Be honest with her about it and find out how far she wants to go and how far you want to go. She wants to be a sub and you her Dom. You have to realize that is an honor, for a woman to want you to be that for her it is her saying she trusts you and expects you to be her Dom. There's more to this than what most people think. There are many psychological aspects that you HAVE to and NEED to find out about, study and understand. That is your role in this. It can go from mild to all out lifestyle. that's something that has to be worked out between both of you. Start googling it and start reading about it so you know what to do, that's what a good Dom does. He takes charge and does it right!!!!!
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this is not neceacerly BDSM, This can also be Bondage, it can just be that she want to feel helpless and are getting sexually exited about this. this mean she trust you compleatly and you should be happy for that. if this is bondage then she not want you do to anything unsusual on her, just plain sex. if this is BDSM, then she might want you to spank her, note that if it is BDSM then you can never be a master to her if it is not in your nature. a master must feel sexually exited in spanking or bring controlled hurt. if this is not who you are, then it will not be successful.
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