What would you do if you confided in your best friend about something, and they just flat out said "That's so f-ing stupid of you." and nothing else was said?
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Be really angry at my friend.
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Well I would be a little ticked off. so I would probably not confided in that person again.
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I would wonder who had taken over my friend's body as none of my friends would ever say that. I don't confide in people lightly. I alway make sure where I'm setting my confidences. That's why my husband hears everything!
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Maybe ask them what they mean? And then consider that maybe they were right? If I was certain that I wasn't 'f'ing stupid, I would confront them and get an explanation, and then give one, letting them know how hurt I was by their fast judgement.
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I'd probably laugh at her and realize she was right. She can get away with stuff NO ONE else can. But, I also know what she really means, no matter what she says and that's what's most important to me.
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I might respond sarcastically by saying, "Well, thank you for caring. You're exactly the kind of friend I need right now."
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My BEST FRIEND is someone I can trust. I only expect her to be completely honest even if it may hurt my feelings. I know she truly cares for me so if my BESTFRIEND told me I did something f-ing stupid i would prolly agree with her and move on.
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I may have to reconsider our friendship.
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I would retort with: "It's stupid of you to not be able to complete a sentence without using the f word."
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happens all the time to me, but that's because few people can think and perceive the way I see things.
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I would confide in a different friend next time, who has more compassion.
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If my best friend said something like that to me, I'd have to seriously check myself.
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