What should a man do when his wife is against him at every turn?
by 
Cowboy-Matter of Fact
ANSWERS: 16
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well are you doing something wrong? sorry im a women so....well you know.
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Sit her down and have a loooong discussion. Find out what her problem is. Maybe she just needs a vacation from you...(not unreasonable). Many people take separate vacations, sometimes. Heck, I have. S/O understands. It isn't a problem with her. She is not into hanging out on a wilderness lake and fishing from a canoe with only a small camper to live in for two weeks. She probably likes the time alone, too. Or, it could be a sense of insecurity. Does it involve a job or business change? This sometimes can create some fears.
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Have you tried talking to her to find out what the problem is?? Maybe you are upsetting her in some way, maybe you are not paying her any attention, maybe she is hormonal..there could be lots of things bothering her. If she is very unhappy, and wont discuss it, then maybe its time to take a break???? I hope it all works out ok (((hugs)))
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go for a long walk on a short pier? but really get away and take some time to think.
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Find out exactly why.
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Remind her that you are both on the same side, man and wife= one flesh. Find out why she is on the other side and maybe if you aren't the one who needs a little more compromising. Between the two of you, you should be able to meet in the middle and work at things as a team.
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Cast her off. A man shall not justly be weighted down by timidity, cowardice, or willful obstinacy.
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Try to determine if maybe you are being paranoid about this. 'Against him at every turn' sounds pretty extreme. And if it is really happening, it should be obvious why it is. Has she told you why and you argue about it with her instead of discussing it? Have you taken to drinking heavily lately? Do you sometimes find yourself forgetting entire conversations? Your question is too open-ended for a single answer.
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Well I think Bill Clinton used the theory of "I'll head for the Oval Office, she can't corner me there!"
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Get a new one; preferrably younger and prettier.
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You need to remind her that you are both on the same team. Go Cowboys!
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Did this happen to you?
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go do marriage counseling.
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What would The Duke do?
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Find a way to "disappear" like the way guys did in Vietnam that didn't want to come home to their wives. They were added to the MIA lists. The guy can fake his death, and they don't bury the casket till after everybody's gone anyway. So the guy can get out, and she will think he died.
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Quit turning those corners and just turn around. Ask her what is the real issue here, and if you can work together to try and solve it. You both really have to be willing to talk it through, and then actually work it through, also. Compromise on things together and try to see things from each other's points of view. No, things aren't going to be like they may have been when you were first married, but I am sure you have both grown and changed since then anyway. You may need to rediscover who you are, and what you are to each other.
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