My GF has been living w/me for the last 5 months+, but she refuses to pay rent(half)she paid the electric bill twice, not cable , not internet. She says that she cleans my place all the time(she is messier than me) is she another bumb i'm dating?
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the zeeman1984
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If you agreed she'd do these things before she moved in, then yeah.
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I think you need to decide if you want a girlfriend or a roommate. If you want her to pay half then she is a roommate and should be legally protected in the lease and should not have to clean up after you (even if she is messier). If you want a girlfriend, then her keeping up the house is a reasonable alternative to paying her share. I don't think you can have it both ways. The best thing to do is talk to her about it.
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Did you have an agreement before she moved in? If the answer is yes than you both should sit down and have a talk. If the answer is no, than you jumped into something way over your head, because this should have been the first thing you addressed. Either way something needs to change if it doesn't this relationship will not work out, you already resent her for this so the outlook is pretty grim. If you try hard and be honest you never know she might just need you to stand up for yourself. Good luck!:)
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This is one of those rare cases where I'll actually recommend violence. =P J/K Sounds pretty shady to me man. Sounds like shes just trying to get a free ride. Me personally, I'd tell her to pay half the rent or get the hell out.
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The question is what do u want. If you want a GF then dont ask cos she will probably be offended and flip. Or is it the rent... then all u can do is demand that she pay up. This may sound old-fashioned, but its relationship psychology 101, man is the bread winner and the woman is the child bearer. Society may have changed but trust me she probably wont like paying for rent, thats why she cleans, not because she wants to!
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Hi, I posted the question...then thing is, I never asked her to move in, she just did. she doesn't have a place of her own, and shes costing me about $500/month to date her...we talk about this many times but I just can't afford her anymore...I guess what I really should be asking is: when it comes to dating, Is love really FREE?
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