1) I suppose that this kind of question would be asked before I started a relationship with the person. So if I did choose to make this person my s/o, I suppose I could cope with this. 2) Here is a report about an interesting exhibition focusing on the private life of persons working as porn stars: http://www.paolocurti.com/greenfield/greenfield.htm 3) their private life is sometimes lonely: "For the first time, porn legend Aiden Shaw takes fans behind-the-scenes to the gay adult film world that made him a star. My Undoing ventures from locales such as Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, and London, to the sets of premiere studios like Falcon, Catalina, and Studio 200. Yet, this is not the typical adult film memoir, where stars drop names and titillate readers with explicit moments. Although My Undoing shares in unsparing detail all the hot stories about the sex and drugs that fueled Aiden's life, it more profoundly follows him through a course of rocky and unfulfilling relationships. As Aiden eloquently and often humorously points out, the romantic life of an adult film superstar is sometimes lonely and lacking in love. But not love only in the form of a relationship, rather also love from within himself. The book is equally moving for his revelations about his Irish Catholic family, his Positive HIV status in the sex industry, and his recovery from a near fatal car accident that left him temporarily paralyzed." Source and further information: http://www.amazon.com/My-Undoing-Thick-Pornography-Prostitution/dp/0786717432

I would be absolutely shocked and embarrassed as I've known him since he was 18 and I can't imagine how he could have done such a thing at such a young age! lol! I'd be funny to see this young fellow who now is pushing 6o lol!!!

i dont think i'd be able to get over that one...i mean...thats just a little too much for me to deal with.

I'd be appauled....... that she never tries any of that stuff with me. :0)

How AWESOME would that be?! The novelty would probably wear off fast, but for the first while I'd be so redonkulously amused you have no idea.

In essence this happened to me. My wife did some porno before we got together - stag loops from the 70's and she did not conceal it from me. I liked the idea. We lived together for five years in Hollywood before we were married and she must have done 20-25 porno 8mm films and videos (and stills) for a lower end pro each about 10 minutes in length - but hard-core to the max. Although done in the late 70's and early 80's some of it still finds its way to the internet and some of it finds its way to me. It turned me on every bit as much as I expected. I'm okay with other men (and women and others) watching her and adding her to their collections and/or their memories. I've always liked porn - so has she - and we use it often. If that's the "price" for my pleasure - so be it. I realize that most men do not share my desires. The bottom line is - you just don't know how you're going to react until it happens. Your reaction might surprise you.