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  • Wow. Well i suppose it all boils down to the reason you broke up. Is it something that can be worked through? If not, maybe just leave it. But if you think there could be some hope (and obviously he thinks there is a slight glimmer of hope otherwise he wouldn't have sent that to you) then maybe you should try and work things out. The other point is are you feeling the same way? Things like this are usually messy but can often be a 2nd chance for the relationship to reignite... Good luck
  • That is touching and sucks all in the same package! He is telling you that he values you and misses you but ...can't be with you. The first part is good to know..the second you already did know and it feels like teasing. I would say.. Thank you, I appreciate the thought, but I just can't hear you say these things to me anymore. Good bye. Then I would block him or change my number whatever I had to do to prevent myself from being gutted by him again. I'm sorry.
  • I would think that he was very immature and not ready to let you go. But he already has. That is a terrible mind game that he has just done to you. He should have been man enough to keep quiet and suffer himself. It was his choice: he shouldn't be leaning on you because he;s having trouble with his decision.
  • Do not reply at all. He is being manipulative. Ignore him and go on to bigger and better things. Find someone who doesn't play mind games with you. That was immature and cruel on his part. It is good to be rid of someone like that. If he turns into a stalker, call the police.
  • At this point there is nothing good to say. Give it much more time. You both are too vulnerable. Time heals all.
  • Well it could be that he is just so lonley without you that he just had to tell you... just to have some kind of communication with you. Or he could be wanting you to ask him to get back together, since it will seem very wishy-washy of him to break up with you and then ask for you back, and knowing that you would say no, he wants you to be the one to want the new start. It honestly sounds like you could get back together with him, if you wanted to. That is totally up to you.
  • People in your past are in it for a reason, they do not deserve a place in your future! If he was an idiot and let you go for no reason and now he misses you and wants you to get back with him (that way around!!!), then play hard to get (This is if you want to be with him of course...). But... there will always be that little niggle in the back of your mind about whether he'll just up and leave again... for no apparent reason. If you love him enough to ignore this niggle... then good luck and happy flaunting ;) If not... tell him where to shove it and block every number and email address and get a guard dog that aims for the balls... Good luck! x

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