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  • I would say without a doubt that he is asking you because he's nervous you will go off with someone else. If I were you I would tell him to ask you again when he gets out. That way you're not saying no but you aren't committing. You're also showing him that you may say yes in the future.
  • I think you've just answered your own question, no?
  • I'm sure being in jail is causing him to rethink his own mortality, and perspectives in life. So probably yes, it's jail getting to him. However, it's obviously an honest feeling for him or it wouldn't have come up. So while his heart may be in it, yes I would let him have some time to rethink it once he gets out, without anything having the opportunity to cloud his thinking!
  • Well I would want to consider what he did that put him in jail in the first place. If you don't know what to say you should say No, not at the moment and that you don't think it's a decision you want to make with him in jail. Marriage is a very big step and if you are serious about each other it will be the right step at the right time. How much longer does he have to serve - he may be a changed man when he comes out so I don't think I would want to make a commitment until I was absolutely sure of the effect prison has had on him.
  • girl i am going thru the same situation rightnow as we speak, he asked me to marry him hes been in jail for a year and has 2 more years to go, I do love him we have a 3 year old son, but I am not to sure if its a good Idea,, he said if I say no, then for me to move on, so I dont understand.. so have you made up your mind yet ???? and how much time he has left ??????

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