Ok so i think my gf is preg, im depressed and im thinking about killing myself....idk why. we both r in hs. shes a sr and im a jr. we both dont have jobs...idk what to do. im trying to stay postive and stuff but its hard...
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Has she done the test? ( http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/705196 ) If not, you're stressing about something that hasn't even happened, yet.
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I am so sorry all this is piling up on you. Please don't harm yourself. I know you are scared about what is going to happen. But really, nothing that could happen will be made better for ANYBODY if you kill yourself. If my son got his girlfriend pregnant I would be upset...but if he KILLED himself over it..it would literally take my will to live. Be calm, find out if your girlfriend is pregnant for sure then you can make your next move. I hope this can include telling your parents. You need their support and you are NOT the first young couple to find themselves in this position, though I am sure it feels like it.
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This is a horrible situation for you. Sometimes the worst possible thing you can think to happen is actually a wonderful thing in disguise. Listen to Kenny Chesneys song There goes my life. I wouldn't worry too much until you find out for sure. You need to talk to your school counselor or someone who can help you sort things out. Killing yourself or her killing herself is not the answer. Dealing with parents being mad at you is small pickles compared to what you will go through if she is pregnant. Your parents might be mad, but I bet they will support your decision whatever you do, it's hard because their baby is having a baby. Good luck and please seek help for all of you.:)
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You and your girlfriend should go together to Planned Parenthood - they can give you a pregnancy test, and they have counselors there to talk to who can help you figure out the next step. If both of you would rather kill yourselves than talk to your parents about this, you need to find a sympathetic adult to talk to first. Maybe they can help you approach your parents, if the need is there. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/about-us/contact-us.htm Take care of yourselves. You're not the first kids to find yourselves in this position and you won't be the last. You might find that your parents will be more understanding than you expect. Good luck.
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hey, please please please listen to me. i was in this situation not too long ago, except i am the woman. i was dating a younger guy and we had a little condom mishap. we were sure i was pregnant. my boyfriend went insane and i was positive he was going to leave me. i considered suicide... luckily we found out about the morning after pill in time and i got that. but listen, even if you are too late for that, there are options. she can get an abortion, she can have the baby and give it up for adoption, or you two can keep it. please oh please do not commit suicide, it is not going to help anything. as hard as it is on you just imagine how hard it is on her. women feel like its our fault... and its also our bodies get the blame. try to be there for her. she is the only person who knows what you are going through right now. everything will be okay i promise. if you have any questions or you want to talk, just comment me back, i'd be glad to help in any way i can. good luck.
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Killing yourself isn't going to help you, her or the baby, IF there even is one. Don't even think about it. So what SHOULD you do? Well, first, suck it up and talk to someone. Ideally, your parents or her parents or both. It won't be a fun conversation, but they still want what's best for you, even if they're angry or upset. You can also talk to your school nurse or counselor about it. If you mention suicide, they HAVE to tell your parents and get you help, but they do NOT have to tell your parents about a suspected pregnancy, and can probably help your gf get a test to find out for sure. And they'll be able to tell you where you can get further support in your area.
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I think you need to talk to your parents or somebody about how you feel. Maybe at your schol they have a couselling service. Suicide is not the way out, dont pretend like everything is ok, just recognise what is happening and find the best solution to your problems. :) good luck
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Older post. First off you both have to tell your parents. Yes they'll be pissed etc, but they will get over it. You're still there children and when they come back down to earth they'll know that they have a grand child on the way. When I was in HS there were two couples that got pregnant and as far as I know they're both doing well.
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If you are thinking about killing yourself then you shouldn't've has sex! Why would you even put yourself in that situation without thinking about the consiquenses? You want that child to not have father? Seriously. You can't think about yourself anymore. You made the descision to have sex, and now you have to deal with it. You can't run from your problems anymore. You have another life at stake, and not just yours. Grow up. Be a man. You kinda have to now.
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Ok, first off, self harmin aint the way to go about anythin, trust me I used to do it when I felt suicidal with my mood swings,if ur like i used to be, in a couple of years you'll be p**sed off cause your arms (or legs, or chest, or all three in my case) will be scarred. for life. its not the way to go bro, suicides the cowards way out. I pulled myself out of it and life is better than it was even though i was kicked outta my parents etc etc. im now 19 and 3 weeks ago my gf, just over a year younger than me told me she was pregnant. i didnt have a clue what to do, still dont really lol. but i reckon if you wanna have sex, you have to be able to deal with the consequences whatever they may be. if you give a damn bout her you'll pull yourself together and try your best. bout all you can do. tell your parents btw, but DO NOT LET THEM CHANGE YOUR MIND!!! it is up to you n your gf what you do. best of luck
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Don't hurt yourself, and don't hurt the baby. I was like you in my Junior year in High School when I got pregnant. Today my daughter is a college graduate and my son is 3 years in the Airforce. You can do it. I got my GED, I got a job, and then I took care of my kids while the father of the children worked. He was only 18. When the kids got old enough to go to school we divorced, and he went his way and I went mine. I continued to work, put myself through college, and I have a profession now. I am an Executive. Please, all can be made well if you stay focused, but it is not the end of the world. It is a wonderful blessing full of challenges. Believe in yourself, and you will succeed.
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