ANSWERS: 18
-
First...ignore the idiots who are saying you are frigid! You are 14...you have LOTS of time. Say "I am just picky...I don't want just anybody, thanks!" That should shut them up!
-
Their probably saying you're "frigid," not "fridget." And they have absolutely no idea what the word means, so don't let it bother you. At 14, you have the rest of your life in front of you to explore dating and relationships. You seem to understand that a person starts a relationship because they've found someone who's interesting and attractive, not because it's the "thing to do." Peer pressure is for weak minds. Don't worry about what others say. Believe me, that aspect of human behavior doesn't change no matter how old you get. Walk to your own pace and when the time is right, you'll run into the right person.
-
don't bother listening to them.im 18 and neva had a gf
-
IM 15 year old guy and ive had many g/f!!!! But dont worry bout what other people say. BE YOU!!!!!
-
Don't do anything. Its perfectly fine. Don't rush at all.
-
In my opinion, no one should even be thinkin about having a bf/gf at 14. Chill.
-
NO! Enjoy your life without that drama! Seriously! It isn't a bad thing! You are still a kiddo!
-
no of course not, you have plenty of time.
-
Yeah, chill. Figure out what works for you & what you really need before you go complicating things.
-
No. Don't worry about it. I had just had my first boyfriend at 14. And it was an on and off mess. I was pressured by friends to get involved with someone when I had said I just didn't want a boyfriend. I gave in to one guy and ended up having to break his heart because I -really- wasn't interested, just as I'd warned him and my friends. When someone comes along that is worth it, you'll have a girlfriend. It could be when you're 20. Don't push it. Enjoy being single. In University/college being single can be a good thing.
-
You're 14... get over it. When you find someone you want as a real boyfriend, you'll have a "real" boyfriend. You don't -need- to be in a relationship at all times and the sooner you realize that the better.
-
Im thirteen and have had a boyfriend for about a week it was this awkward, disgusted feeling in the pit of my stomach constantly because i didnt actually like the guy but i didnt want to hurt his feelings. We broke up after a week and I was happy because just a day before we broke up he wanted to take me to the movies and luckilly we dont live close so i said i was busy. Anyway, my point is, the right guy will come along and NEVER go out with a guy you dont actually like to make him feel happy. I really regret going out wit that guy and we dont talk anymore any way THANKGOD for that.
-
You can stay "frigid" for a few more years until you are ready to have a boyfriend. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
-
don't worry, i'm the exat same, same situation same age...i thought the same too but u'll find someone
-
Do not believe the fridget part. You are young. Bf will come and go. Don't try to rush things. Enjoy your young life.
-
if more 14 year olds were frigid, we wouldn't have a teenage pregnancy problem. so good for you for being part of the solution. keep it cold, love.
-
Don't worry about it! I'm also a bit shy at first and never had my first real boyfriend until i was 15 (I'm about to turn 16). Honestly, don't be in a rush. The right guy will find you when it's good timing. At this age we shouldn't be rushing to find someone. Focus on your life and what you want right now. Everything else will eventually come.
-
I had my first gf when i was 16, didnt turn out all that great either. dont rush into things, go at your own pace and if you are frigid so what! youll get there in the end just be a kid and enjoy yourself hun
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

by 