I'm a 13 girl, most of my friends are guys, and the girls at my school are rich and snobby. For some reason, they are all friends with each other, but are exceptionally snobby and bitchy to me. Can anyone explain y other than the "They'r insecure" answer?
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you aren't like them. it's easy to single out the different members in a minority. different to them is a bad thing you think for yourself not to mention you can understand guys and at that age girls are so focused on them but they don't speak their language so they're probably dumbfounded. and brainwashing societies make it easy to elevate people with money. so maybe you don't act like you have money, hence they don't elevate you. honestly. it's full of crap stick to your schoolwork honey, enjoy your friends, you'll be fine
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If most of your friends are guys, then it's reasonable to assume that there is a bit of jealousy because the guys seem to like you better than them and they cannot understand why.
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From my personal experience, they are usually extremely jealous. Think about it! You get to hang out with the guys and they joke around with you and get along well with you while the "girls" all gather round in their little cliques and gossip about you and the guys. Yes it really sucks when you are in school and have to deal with these people. I was the only girl in my auto, welding, small engines and electricity classes and I tell you what, I can take care of myself and I STILL have those guys that I hung out with as very close friends. They would bend over backwards to help me out and they have many times over the years. When you leave school you will be able to count your true friends on one hand. To hell with the snobby brats and stay true to your friends.
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So they're the cheerleading squad to your Claire (Heroes)... Those other girls to your Carrie, huh? It could be they're jealous that you have guy friends, and they don't, or the ones they do don't treat them as well as your friends do you. As for "snobby and bitchy"... Well, some girls are like that (even if they AREN'T rich). I'm sure there are a lot of other girls in your school that feel the same. Ignore the bitches, and find the others. If you like hanging out with your guy friends, do so. (It'll drive the jealous ones CRAZY!) Forget them... Don't let them get to you... Be yourself. That's probably why a lot of guys like you as a friend... You're NOT a snobby, "high-class", high-maintenance, bitch. STAY that way, even if you DO manage to get into one of those cliques. You'll find yourself more popular than the others. Good luck. ;-)
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Because sweetie they are better than you!! At least that's what they think... You see some rich kids, not all mind you, but some rich kids think that you don't need to have a personality if you have loads of money... The thing you don't understand yet is that they will develop a personality or die lonely... And yes they probably like some of your guy friends and see you as competition...
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I had the same problem when I was your age and all the way through high school. It's jealousy, don't let it get to you. I was a girly-girl, but I still liked to play sports and the guys treated me like a sister. Even some of them that became or were my "boyfriend" still hung around me because I was myself. The other girls tried too hard and ended up with their feelings hurt because the guys treated them like crap. I can't even remember how many butts I had to kick due to all of this!
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I wouldn't focus on why they do it - people are mean and that's that. You don't want to know their thoughts. That wouldn't help anything. To be realistic, cliques/groups of friends hardly let newcomers in. In about three years maybe you'll see that what others think doesn't matter half as much as what you think. You've heard it before: don't be something you're not. If they can't accept you as you are, then you have no business trying to please them. Do they control your life? NO! They can try to make life difficult for you, and even though I don't know you, I bet you'll be able to find a way around it. Have guy friends, and get involved in activities after school, or maybe outisde of school if you want a fresh group of people to make friends with.
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umm i am 23 and still have the same problems... girls are jealous and it never changes so you just have to learn to be comfortable with yourself and not care what other people think be yourself and that is all that matters:) good luck
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you could try asking one of them, why
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I had that problem too when I was your age.. and how I wanted to be treated equal, and actually friends with them... ! you wanna make the problem disappear? Ignore them, and whenever they were bitchy at you, give your most angelic face and smile, and leave - dont even dwell on their words, keep yourself busy. Get into a lot of activities, make friends with people with great interests like you...! Your 'snob' friends are not rich, their parents are... and you think rich people are happy? ;-D Trust me, you might be hundred times happier than they are ;-)
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