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I have the exact same problem, but i figured out a system to find out who really has the blabbermouth, tell everyone different bits of one story and when it gets back around to you, you will know who did it by what you hear, just remember who you told what to
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It's not a bad thing to learn from your mistakes. There is a saying, "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." It means that it's okay to make mistakes but not to learn nothing from them and then make the same mistakes again or worse yet, repeatedly. Yes, it does sometimes take a fair effort to learn a new habit etc, but to be honest, it's sometimes going to take a while. However, to knowingly share information that you know you shouldn't be sharing, is wrong, especially if it's with those who you know can't be trusted. If they pressure you again, remind them of the times when they've misled you and gone back on their promise to stay quiet. If they say they won't say a thing, ask them how they'd feel if you spilled all the dirt on them with others and made their private lives entertainment for others. If they keep insisting, say no and walk away. If they come after you, you may want to consider making some new friends / associates.
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