ANSWERS: 9
  • There ain't no good guys, there ain't no bad guys, there's just he and she and they just disagree.
  • He needs to as they say "shit or get off the pot." If that is what she wants he either complies or hits the road.
  • They are both wrong. They have been fornicating for NINE years and neither of them have decided it's time to make the union legal and binding. She is a fool for waiting this long and he is a fool for making her wait.
  • Have to agree with Riff-Raff. They are both wrong. She's waiting for marriage and he is already getting everything he wants so why should he get married? They rushed it at the beginning and I don't see it ever getting right. Their chance to have a good solid foundation for a lasting relationship would be built on shaky ground.
  • They both are wrong. They have been together too long and to get married at this point in the relationship would only spell disaster. Nine years? My God! One year is the most any relationship needs to decide if its marriage or something stupid. Love is not rocket science.
  • Nine years. WAKE UP comes to mind for the both of them.
  • I can't blame her, nine years is along time. Maybe there is more than meets the eye in this relationship...finances? Job changes? School? I would have at least thought an engagement though. Sounds like they eitheir really care for each other but can't get it together or its just been so long that they've grown together and not thought seriously about tying the knot. I wouldn't want to force someone to marry, but after nine years you've gotta know if this is the one...and he should give her a ring or leave.
  • None is right or wrong. Seems the girlfriend feels that she now wants to 'settle down'. The brother might not be ready yet. If they can't come to a compromise then they must end the relationship.
  • I think 2 people wasted 9 years of their lives. What a let down for both. I think they are silly people.

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