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You are over analyzing this. It could also mean that he is completely comfortable with you enough to feel that he doesn't need to verbally stroke your ego anymore.
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I'm wondering this same thing!! I'm glad to see I'm not the only one, but not happy about our situation...My husband used to tell me this quite a bit. He would call, leave me the simple message "Hey, just called to say I love you!" and he NEVER says it anymore. It has me perplexed and I've asked him if he does..he says yes and when I call this dilemma to his attention he just says "Oh, I didn't know I wasn't doing it...I'm sorry!" but then doesn't improve. I've been married 22 years. It's sorta odd. I don't know if he has stopped loving me or not...I hope not!!
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Naw, it happens...me and my man rarely say it, but that doesnt mean we dont love each other less...its just, we SHOW it, instead of SAYING IT. Words are words, actions are actions........So, as long as they still show it...who cares if they say it. "More than words"
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If he becomes indifferent as well; my instinct tells me he feels comfortable and secure (though selfish) and has slipped back to his 'normal' way of behaving. Perhaps he didn't grow up in a warm and loving home and doesn't even know he's being an insensitive jerk. or he realizes you annoy him or he's just not into you but stays out of comfort or finances? My guy (of 6m) just moved in together and he was the one who kept asking 'are we ok? we have to always communicate-i am very affectionate-blah blah' He sent me several text a day and long letters-now zero. He is nice like a roommate. Now his dog gets the affection and i asked if he'd buy a Xmas tree (he earns $4000-$5000 a month) and he said with annoyance that he doesnt have the money (it was $20 at IKEA) yet the next day he bought clothes for himself (I am on disability so I earn very little) So-thats my story.
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