Ok im 18 an have a 4 month old baby boy. His dad left me when i was 3 months pregnant . an i have been wit someone new since my baby was born. an i am so in love its crazy. is it to soon to want a new one? i wanna expierience pregnancy wit some i love...
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That is great that he's willing to step up to the plate and be your son's daddy. But you two need to spend some time together before having another one. Wait about a year or two before thinking about another! Have you thought about marriage in the process too? :)
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I am not against younger people having kids, but you guys haven't known each other that long yet. I suggest that you take your time in deciding on another child.
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You're 18, you've known a guy for 4 months and you think you're in love? I'm guessing that's how the first child got here. It takes an average of $200,000 to raise a single child to the age of 17. Got that kind of cash? Why not mature a little more, get a good job, get to know this person you just met, put your child before dating for a while and then think about more children. You'll be glad you did.
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hold the phone?! NO, put the dick down! Stop having kids, Child
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GET MARRIED THIS TIME. Give your kids a fighting chance, life is hard. Give them every advantage you can. You can start off by giving them 2 loving parents and a stable environment. How are you feeding this kid? How are you going to feed another?
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All I see in your questions are 5 "I"'s. When you choose to have a child, your life is no longer about you but about making the best choices for your child. Your focus should be on that child and what is best for him. You should be living at home with your parents because you hopefully have a father that can provide a good father figure. It's no longer about what YOU want. I'd suggest you take some parenting classes, participate in a single mother group and get your mind off how hormone driven you are. It's time to deny yourself some things for the benefit of your child.
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You're 18 with a four month old infant, and you want to get pregnant again? God girl slow down! How can you know you love this guy enough to have a baby with him after only four months? I bet ya you said the same thing when you were with your baby's father. Take a break and enjoy your baby. Learn what being a mother is all about. After some time (a year or 2)if the two of you are that much in love then get married, before you have another baby. Don't just keep popping them out without a solid family structure.
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hey sweetie.. i suggest waiting a little while.. wait til your little bub is 2-3 so he can be the centre of your attention for a bit longer and he can be a big brother with an important role of looking after you and your new bub.. you are raising your little boy with the man you love.. wait and see if it works out.. your only 18.. you have all the time in the world.. dont rush, just live the life you have for a bit longer.. hope this makes sense
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It’s great that you found this guy, and I wish the two of you all the blessings in the world, but you’ve got to take your time on this one. No, it’s not too soon to *want* another child, but it *is* to soon to make one. You’ve known this guy for four months and you’re not married to him, so you *really* need to take your time, do things in the right order. Once you two have an official commitment to each other (i.e. you’re married), *then* you can start talking about the even larger commitment of making another baby. HTH!
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I'm sorry, but -- this is not about you and what your pregnancy is like -- you can't just have children so you get to experience pregnancy how you want to experience it, you have to take care of your children after they're born as well, so maybe think about the one you have already first.
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Instead of wanting another child for awhile, since is is soon, why not "have" the child in your life already with your s/o? Spend time together as a family of three, so that he can experience a father in his life, and see if your s/o would care for your son as if he was his own.
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honestly i think you should wait..your baby is only 4 months old..wait until he can grow into at least a toddler..your being unfair to this child and basically punishing him for having a father who left you..and you want to experience a pregnancy with love? why don't you just love the child you have now? he needs double the love...and the guy that your with now..if he's so great then he should or would accept your baby as his own..its not the feeling of being in love that should make you decide to have a child..what if he leaves you too? according to you this guy has been in your life for only four months..thats nothing..just have patience and see what happens
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you know...i just noticed that all your questions revolve around sex..slow it down and use your mind when it comes to another person's life
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Having a child for YOU because you want a romantic pregnancy isn't a reason to have a child. It's selfish. Wait until you can provide the first child with a stable and loving home, then think about having another one.
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Being pregnant and being left alone should have been enough to teach you that pregnancy is no guarentee that the father will stick around. Having a child is a lifetime labor of love, not a way to ensure that someone will love you or stay around. This is a human life you are talking about. Not a tool to be used. With due appology, you sound very young and insecure. Please do not use an unborn child as a weapon. Think about how you different your life would feel if you knew your parents only concieved you to insure their own questionable happiness. Please don't assign a full time job to a new born child.
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Okay, I know every 1 is gonna jump down your throat for this question, becuase you are 18 and I am sure you are not financially stable. I think that not even Actors and singers that have babies back to back is a great idea, for the simple fact that each baby needs his one on one with mommy and daddy before someone else comes and takes his spot. if your baby is 4 months old you have not finish your bonding process with your kid, a mother grows along with her baby through each month that passes, he is not even at the teathing months when he is crying at night. or the potty training (which I found to be the hardest.....my grandma says that you should at least give your babies 2yrs. in between having them to ensure that they get there mommy and me time...... I really don't want to get into the new boyfriend thing with you so I just gave you my opinion on the baby part ( which of course should be your main focus at this very moment) Good luck!
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