She's obviously got a lot of personal problems. If you dont leave her, you'll end up with her baggage.

That's a HUGE lie. My thing is, if there's not trust in a relationship, there's nothing. If it were me, I would move on. It sounds like she's incapable of being in a healthy relationship for the time being, and it would be best FOR YOU to move forward with your life, and find someone who could appreciate all that you have to offer, and offer something to you as well. (Besides a headache.) Obviously, you know what's right for you, and staying with her would be another option... Don't EXPECT her to change. Don't try to change her either, your efforts will not be triumphant.

Why? well, because shes a liar.

Because you let her. Dump her. It has only been 6 months. No need to put up with that, especially with the Birth Control issue...

She lied about her birth control because she wants to get pregnant and trap you into a relationship. She has serious issues. Stop having sex with her and get out of this relationship. Don't be surprised if you leave and she then tells you she's pregnant. Get the proof. She may even say she's pregnant to try to get money for an abortion. Sounds sick but I know someone this has happened to.

This is not normal. She has issues. Don't have sex with her! If she gets pregnant your in big TROUBLE!

Well, she might have something that's bothering her. Does that make it okay to lie, though? No. What are you doing to contribute to the problem? Are you doing anything at all that might? Are you demanding of her? Do you expect too much? Does she even want to have sex? Does she feel like she has to so that you will love her? How do you confront the issue of her lying? Do you yell at her or do you discuss it calmly with her? Does she promise things so that you will shut up and leave her alone? I need more details. It sounds to me like there is a major communication problem in your relationship and communication in relationships is one of the most important things a relationship should be founded on, along with trust. Trust and communication are two things that contribute to the foundations of a healthy relationship. Here are two questions you should ask yourself: "If I can't trust her with the little things, how can I trust her with the big things?" "Am I honest with her myself?"

To begin with, it may help to understand the difference between pathological and compulsive lying, look it up under types of liars. Making this type of distinction may not be that useful. Because in either case, the outcome is typically the same: dealing with a compulsive or pathological liar is very difficult to do. A compulsive liar will resort to telling lies, regardless of the situation. Again, everyone lies from time to time, but for a compulsive liar, telling lies is routine. It becomes a habit - a way of life. For a compulsive liar, lying becomes second nature. Not only do compulsive liars bend the truth about issues large and small, they take comfort in it. Lying feels right to a compulsive liar. Telling the truth, on the other hand, is difficult and uncomfortable. Like any behavior which provides comfort and an escape from discomfort (i.e., alcohol, drugs, sex), lying can become addictive and hard to stop. For the compulsive liar, lying feels safe and this fuels the desire to lie even more. Making matters even more complicated, compulsive lying is often a symptom of a much larger personality disorder, which only makes the problem more difficult to resolve, narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder are two possibilities. Unfortunately, compulsive lying is hard for the person involved to see, but it hurts those who are around it. Compulsive lying, if not addressed, can easily ruin a relationship, check the link for "why does he need to lie". Compulsive lying can be dealt with through counseling or therapy. But, like any addictive behavior (and/or personality disorder), getting someone to admit they have a problem with lying is the difficult part. Sadly enough, getting someone to recognize that she/he has a problem usually requires hitting rock bottom first. Check the right side of the screen, there is online help. http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/what_people_lie_about/public/what_people_lie_about.html http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/home/public/lying-deception.html Best regards and good luck.

she might lie because shes not sure how you would act or she not sure about her self she tries to make her self seem better because she still dont really knoe you 6 months might feel like a long time but in a relationship its not long enought just give her time and let her know that you will understand and if she still lies then you shouldn't stay with her but if she does come around then dont hold over her head.

WE ALL GOT DIFF VIEWS TO THIS,SO ID SAY MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER AND ASK HER WHY SHE WOULD LIE,SHE ISNT PERFECT.THERE ARE MANY REASONS Y PEOPLE LIE BE OPEN AND HONEST EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SEEM A BIT HARSH DONT JUDGE HER.

she may need some help. Usually love can cure lots of these problems. Love can build trust.

Lied about taking her birth control? Okay you need to stop trusting her and use a condom or else she'll tie you to her forever with a baby before you know it. Just stop having that much faith in her when she doesnt deserve it, and see if she can make herself worthy of your trust again. She needs to work on herself!

RUN AWAY! RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!

It's impossible to have a relationship with a liar. You need to either get out or invest in extensive psycho-therapy that will probably take years, and may or may not work.

Lying is not acceptable. Her apologies are obviously empty. Think to yourself - is this worth it? You need someone to respect you. Six months is enough to prove that she is selfish and a liar.

listen and read `she´s got issues` by the offspring