If you don't want to, then don't.

13 is a little too young to have a boyfriend. But only kiss him because you want to,don't let him force you to do something that you don't want to do.

if you dont want to then dont. You've got forever to kiss!

This is your first experience making your own decision, you don't ever let anyone do anything until you know it's right for you! So you tell him......to give you some space and you'll think about it. And then you decide! Not him! :):)

If you don't want to kiss him, then you don't have to kiss him. But you are definitely old enough to kiss a boy. It's all your choice, but yes you should. You really will never know if your ready if you don't try.

Don't let him pressure you. If he does, then he shouldn't have the privilege of your first kiss. Trust me, you will remember it for the rest of your life. Make it count. Mine was Jennifer. I remember the time and place as if it were yesterday (it's been 25 years).

There are kisses and kisses. A kiss on the cheek, or a light kiss on the lips maybe, but the deep stuff, no. You are way too young, and such kisses set off chain reactions-it's natural for the body to start responding. It is your choice. Don't be pressured. Weigh up the pros and cons. Above all, do you expect that you will be with him for ever? If not, maybe it's better to wait.

If you are not SURE you are ready, then you are NOT ready. The only person in control of you is you. If your BF really cares for you he understands that. If he demands that you kiss him, he doesn't really care about you, he just wants someone to satisfy HIS needs. He may threaten to or even actually 'dump' you. But do you really want to have such a self-centered, egotistical BF? There are a bunch of boys out there, some of them actually respect you. The hard part is getting together, but it really isn't that hard, boys and girls get together eventually, and the wait is worth it. And they been watchin you. F.Y.I. I am only 58 years old but I was 13 once, I have a daughter more than twice your age, she was 13 once too. Sometimes us old folks aren't trying to tell you what to do just cause we are older and can do that. Sometimes it's, yep, been there, done that, and it was confusing and scary, when it comes right down to it, I really don't know of a better way to do it than the confusing way I did it. But remember , and I repeat, The only person in control of you is you. The person who knows what is right for you is you. And your smart, 'cause you asked for other peoples advice. Now ask some real people, a parent, ( dad's really know what boys got in mind), a teacher, counselor, somebody a bit older, judging by some of the answers I've seen here, your age peers, while they can share actuall experiences, really don't have the wisdom that will come with age, even just a year or two of age. And now, goldangit, ya whipper snapper you, if you kiss that boy, I'll shake this stick at you!

13 is to young to worry about that stuff. Just be friends an don't be in such a rush to grow up. Enjoy your youth, it won't last forever.

if you are not sure...no deal. you call all the shots when it comes to this stuff. you have everything to lose.

no way wait until your older, youll thank yourself for it when you find that right person

You're 13...don't rush into things. If you aren't sure if you're ready, then most likely you're not. Give it time, it will make it all the more worth it when you're ready!

If YOU are not ready then NO!!! You will know when you are ready, you have no reason to rush things, you are young, just enjoy being YOUNG!!! :)

Take it from someone with experience, if he loves you he can wait. If you wait till your ready, I think you'll have a better, purer relationship. Get to know each other better. Wait till your completly comfortable with him. Most importantly wait till you feel YOUR ready, not him, not your friends, not anyone else on answer bag. You! Good Luck.

i don't think "YOU SHOULD", if you are not ready then dont do it.... it depends on you....

With kissing, or with any other thing when you're older: If you are not sure you are ready, then you're not. If he deserves to be kissing you(or whatever else), he'll wait.

Eh? Why are you "letting him" do anything? I doubt it'd be very enjoyable if it wasn't welcomed on both ends.

uhm yea but no deep stuff...... like jus kissing on the cheek or on lips but NO! TONGUE ACTION..... but hey if you fell ur ready for that witch ur prob not DONT DO IT!.... it ur choice!.... ( make a good decisin girl! )

I think if you were ready to kiss him .. you would not be doubting the doing of it. So maybe wait until you have no doubts and then it'll be more special and nicer for you. . and Taylor .. please always be careful when you're kissing boys at such a young age. Make sure you only do so in a safe environment where things can't get out of hand if either or both of you get that whole passion thing happening. . Take care sweety and please come back anytime you need some help or advice ♥

absolutly not. in my opinion you are too young to have a BF, but that is just MY opinion. the fact is you are not ready to kiss until you know you are ready to kiss. if he is pressuring you then he is being selfish and doesn't care about you. do NOT let him rush you

If you are doubting it, then NO you are not ready. When the time is right, you'll know. and you'll be happier knowing you waited for the right moment.

If I were you I would wait a while. Kiss someone that you are going to want to remember kissing, not someone you just want to make happy.

awww...thats so cute!!! everyone is going to tell you the same thing, YOUR not ready!! but look, your asking, thats what counts, that awsome sweety!! when you want to kiss him, you wont have to ask anyone. But, just remember two months is a long time to be with someone when your only 13. My suggestion, dont get too serious with anyone when your young, you have soooooo much life to live. Just think, high school, and college. I totally wish someone would have told me that, boys are yucky until there mature, and one day you will realize with some boys it takes a long time!! be young, dont be too rapped up, and spend lots of time with your friends, there is nothing like keeping the same friend you grow up with!! You will have your heart broken a million times before its all said and done, just be smart about it!!

Taylor you justneed to do what you think is right. You obviously are having doubts- and is he the guy you want to remember as your first kiss? Do what you think is the best. Don't let anyone around you pressure you to kiss him- and if he is pressuring you, maybehe is not right for you anyways-I mean c'mon girl; your still super young! so its not like thiks is your last oppurtunity (=

Not until you feel ready to have him kiss you. You obviously don't, so wait.

if your not sure, then no. But it is acceptable to just kiss at 13, nothing more. I hope i helped :)

i remeber dose days lol am 14 and i remeber going through that when i was 12! well think of it this way if he really cares about you he will wait until your ready dont feel presurdered! ps u will always remeber ur first kiss no matter what so make it special=]

Do what you think is right.

Don't EVER do anything you are not comfortable with - no matter what.

yeah but, when he kisses u he will want to have sex when u r 14