ANSWERS: 15
  • Hi. What's your name.
  • dont date a co worker unless you are still in school Just ask her name...makes friends with her first. Buy her coffee or a soda
  • Hi .... I am __ what is your name...
  • start a convesation
  • Don't shit where you eat, meaning don't date someone you work with. It hardly ever works out.
  • Why not just go up and introduce yourself. To me that would be the best way and then you can find out her name.
  • Just go up and talk with her & ask her for Coffee:)
  • Give her her something sticky to eat, like a jelly donut, with no napkin. After she eats it, invite her to wipe her hands on your shirt.
  • Several things: First, mixing professional relationships with personal relationships. NOT a good idea, unless you guys are in two TOTALLY different departments with no chance of interacting professionally. Even then.... Second, she's no different than any other girl out there. Unless there are some real fundamental differences, like you're a slob and she's not, by the time MOST women reach their twenties, they start becoming more aware of OTHER qualities in men in addition to looks. Just like men. (Though sometimes I wonder...). SO MAKE A POLITE APPROACH, LET HER KNOW YOU'RE INTERESTED, AND ASK HER OUT TO SOMETHING SIMPLE! Like a coffee or light lunch or something. Third, never forget the power of a compliment and good manners. (Not being a slob helps, too.) Try just being nice, complimenting her appearance, and so forth. NOTE: Complimenting appearance does NOT mean ogling her charms or making obviously suggestive comments. Be different here. Try really LOOKING at her and noticing the little things, like her ears, her shoes, and so forth. And for God's sake, DON'T be cliche! You say "...looks cute". I kind of get the feeling you are intimidated by her looks. If so, get over it and do something about yourself in that department, if needed. ZZ Top had a song "Sharp Dressed Man" with a line: "Every girl's crazy about a sharp dressed man". (OK, I just dated myself here....) As for the name thing: If you can't find out by other means, then TRY AN INTRODUCTION!
  • I have seen many office romances work. it is currently second to the internet in where to meet people. decide what to do on a first date, write a letter and leave it on her desk.
  • Say hello when you see her next, as the days go on ask her about herself, get chatting becoming friendly and take it from there.
  • what is that perfume you are wearing? may i just stand here next to you for a moment?
  • I would have to say dont fish off the company pier. Bad idea and HUGE mistake. If you start dating and something goes wrong with the relationship, first off you will have to deal/endure all of the losers that enjoy gossipping about this kind of thing and one of you will have to quit. I would highly recommend that you not get involved with anyone you work with. Too much exposure if you ask me.
  • The next time you see her carrying a lot of papers or files somewhere, use the old acidentally bumping into her maneover. Apologies and ask her would she join you for a cup of coffee ... as an apology of course.
  • Hi, I'm ..... what's your name? How do you like working here so far? Just be yourself dude. Don't forget that girls like for you to ask questions about them, it show's your interest.

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