ANSWERS: 4
  • Say hello, ask about her life, and then move onto the next attendee. Aren't you married?
  • Polite chit chat and then move on. I tried the un-faithful thing in my first marrage, can't live with myself.
  • I'd be very pleasant, cordial and friendly. If she looks great, I'd say "wow, you look wonderful"! I'd ask about her family..perhaps she is there with a new guy in her life..I'd show her pictures of your wife and family. I'd ask to see pictures of her kids, if she has any. If it gets uncomfortable and she starts "flirting", I'd back away and go on to talk to my other school friends. I see nothing wrong with talking to old friends about old times. :)
  • OK, I'm hoping that you are NOT asking this like it's supposed to be some kind of world shattering moral mind twister, here! The answer is OBVIOUS! Socialize and enjoy myself. No more and no less. I'm a man of honor and my word means something. If I cannot trust myself to behave appropriately, I will not put myself in a compromising situation. Public socialization is NOT compromising. Certain topics, going off alone together, or maybe dancing together ARE compromising situations, because they lead the casual observer to believe something 'else' may be involved, even if nothing 'happens'.

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