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  • I was really shy growing up, I would literally hide behind my moms leg when ppl came around. The thing that helped me, which given your age may not help you, is I got a job working with ppl. I had to open up and be friendly. BTW it was at Wal Mart. After two years there, I can almost talk to anyone. I don't know your thoughts on more spirital lines, but if you go to church or wherever you feel comfortable, you will feel support and be able to meet ppl with lots of love to give. Please don't fall into the peer pressure and just do things to fit in. If you have to do things you think or know that are wrong, these ppl are not good friends and are not worth your time, especially for you to do something you could regret one day. Good luck, hon it whatever you do, and you will find your own voice.:)
  • Ok so this is a weird answer but it helped me out. I pretended to be and actor playing the part of a hyper, energetic, talk alot but after a while the role stuck to me.
  • I was a very shy teen myself, and am pretty much a shy adult. But I do take Ginseng and Ginko Biloba pills. They have changed my personality, I think for the better. They make me rather restless and hungry to learn, maybe a little bit of anxiety, but overall it's better. I'm also more easily bored. I think it may be better for you too.
  • i would of been jsut like you but my dad was strict and didnt allow it.all i did was just talk and be nice you know.its not goin to work out with everyone because some people are jsut too mean.you should join a sport team or join something and make friends there from there youll make more.
  • Some people do not have the genes to be an open person. its just not bred into them. If you really want to give it a try, this may work. First, look in a mirror and discover who you are. have a really long look. ask yourself, what do i like and dislike about myself? Once you have decided, then its time for a change. your hair, your clothes and your personality. Only you can do this.
  • this might work if you are a dude: go somewhere camp-vacation and go all out on some random girl. Just say want to hook up or lets make out or something. (make sure she looks slutty if she is more prud work it a little longer) Then hopefully you get some and you are more confident. If not just laugh if off and try again. If you are rejected it isn't becuase of you its cause of the girl who isnt in to short term things. In addition stop playing your PSP that kills social skill and you should proablly get off the laptop that kills your skills also.

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