A guy tells you he wants to sleep with you in one bed but not have sex. Can it be sincere or will he try to have sex and thats a way to get you in bed with him?
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If I didn't want to have sex with this person, I would not share a bed with him. Sounds like it could cause all sorts of miscommunications.
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If you do not want to have sex with the guy, then I would not sleep in the same bed. Regardless of your or his intent, temptation could take it to another level in no time.
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It's hard not to have sex when you're so close and relaxed together. If you are attracted to each other the chemistry and natural biological urges will take precedence in the middle of the night. You'd be better advised to decide whether you want and are ready for a sexual commitment then at least you go into it with your eyes 'wide open' rather than half or fully asleep! And you can take the appropriate steps to protect yourself from pregnancy too, that way.
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well just ask him make him promise he wont try anything and if he wont just dont sleep in the same bed as him.
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It could be sincere. How much confidence do you have in your ability to tell him to back off in the event he takes it further than you're comfortable with? How likely is it that he is really trying to seduce you? Maybe you'd like cuddling. You're in the best position to analyze the situation's pros and cons. ... Boy, I just realized how late I've answerd this question. It looked like an interesting question, but it was asked quite some time ago.
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Of course he can be sincere. +5
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