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  • Surely some responses are going to advise reward-based systems, and others will talk about punishment-based systems. I, however, prefer fun-based systems for children of these ages, and the most fun for them will be your company while doing chores. Be in there with them, even if it takes you away from what you feel to be a more effective use of your time. Teach them in a hands-on way, and work closely with them until they figure out how to enjoy the job well done. They might move towards understanding the good side of work, but they will do so more quickly if they associate work with your immediate and very close approval. For as many sessions as it takes, don't let more than a few feet separate you, except when you have to move between each of them, which cannot always be avoided. Mainly, don't let them be their own boss until they are ready to do so, productively.
  • First of all, what the hell are you thinking leaving the discipline of your children to your husband? Step parents should NEVER discipline children that are NOT THEIRS. Have you ever wondered if that isn't the reason they don't take you seriously as a mother? Step up to the plate and take the discipline of your children where it belongs. BACK IN YOUR HANDS.

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