How would you feel is the person you loved just all of a sudden said "I want you to move out"? Your reaction? Ways of finding out why if all they say is that I don't love you anymore? Can someone actually stop loving someone cold turkey?
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yes my girlfriend does everytime i pay her'an theres always other guys there.
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People are never that impulsive when it comes to love. He is cowardly. He has been feeling this way for awhile and just finally got the courage to tell you how he felt. There was probably warning sign that he felt this way too, you just missed them. Take heart thou, who wants to go out with a coward anyway.
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Its happened to me and it hurt too much, especially since I loved him too much. But about a year later he called me up and asked for my forgiveness and hoped that it wasn't too late to try again. He said he loved me all along and it pangs him to know that he did such a terrible thing to me. Funny huh, especially since he kicked me out on the streets at 18 years old with no one to help me.
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My opinion is no one stops loving someone cold turkey. Its probably something that has been building up over time, something happens and that is the time they decide they have had enough. At least that is how most of my relationships have ended. Never been kicked out but there had always been underlying issues building and building and guys are not really good at telling you straight up what the have problems with, they just let them fester until its too late for you to fix them.
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Cold Turkey tastes nice mmmmm less than 6 months untill Christmas!
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Devastated and angry and fearful (as it's not easy to find a new place). They've probably found a new partner but were too cowardly to say so. I don't think somebody can stop loving another person cold turkey unless it was a case that they did something really bad that killed the love but I'm sure you didn't do anything like that. He sounds like a prize louse.
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If this person just does this all of a sudden, then he or she is acting with complete disregard for your feelings. Can you stop loving somebody cold turkey? Not if you're a good person. Your best bet is to not let your former partner see how their decision has affected you. That is a right that is reserved for your friends -- which this person has proven themselves not to be. "Well, this is obviously something that has been bothering you for a while, but you've never said anything until now. I wish you'd talked to me about it sooner but, OK." And then leave it at that. The most important thing here is to determine if this person is doing this simply to prompt you to beg them to let you stay. If that is the case? Run. In the opposite direction as fast as you can.
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I would be surprised, wondering where that came from. And cold turkey? Maybe if it's very shocking, but it still takes time to fill the void. I hope it doesn't stop you from ever trusting your vulnerable inner world to another person again. Power to you.
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I think that the feelings where their he just didn't know how two tell you and just finally he couldn't take it anymore and he just let it out. I think that he most likely fell for another girl and you just didn't know about cause thats what happened to me, but i think that you should be strong your better off being alone anyways.
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