I had some "friends" who went in to my college counseling center and talked to counselors about me and my behavior and how they thought i might be suicidal. In that same day, I was given the option be being sent to the hospital for psych evaluation or of going home (6 hours away) My friends didnt tell me they were going to do this, they werent there when the school official people came to talk to me and tell me my options, they didnt contact me afterwards, they didnt talk to me for about a year after it all happened. It took a long time for me to realize what they did was out of love, what they did was to help ME and to keep ME alive. it was not to hurt me or to make me mad, even though they realized what they did meant that we may no longer be friends, they were willing to give up our friendship over giving up on me and letting my kill myself. Remember that you did what you did for a reason. Remember that he doesnt have to forgive you and he doesnt have to ever be your friend again. But unlike my "friends" did... BE THERE, call him, email him, talk to him when possible (if he doesnt talk, dont force it, just be around where he is so he realizes you are still supporting him), show him that you are there, show him you want to see him helped, but you still want to be his friend. -If you need more suggestions or want to ask more questions about how he might feel... i am here.-