ANSWERS: 13
  • Not without your husband.
  • i dont think you should, there may be a misunderstanding
  • You and your husband can both treat him to lunch.
  • The fact that you have to ask indicates you think it is more than "just lunch". If you feel that way, don't go alone, but invite several people to lunch, including him.
  • I love you guys!! He seems innocent enough but I feel a little uncomfortable going out, just the two of us and not even telling my sweet husband. Couldn't seem to figure out if I should go to make him feel happy and work thru my uncomfortableness or try to find a way to say no without hurting his feelings. Four "No's" from you can't be wrong! How can I say no without hurting his feelings. I see him every Sunday.
  • y dont you and your husband invite him out too lunch he may just want company and doenst understand you need 'permission' (that may be the wrong word) if he declines more then once it was obviously more then 'just lunch' it also depends on how old YOU are?
  • He is 80. It is lunch that is it. He is a very lonely old man, that is it. He is looking for a friend and he obviously feels comfortable with you.
  • Make a good Sunday dinner, and invite him over for it, with your husband present. :)
  • Why dont you ask your husband what he thinks that would be the right thing to do ,,and as others have said why dont you all go out for lunch ,,it maybe wiser to go outfor lunch than have him come over as he may think he can keep coming at times when hubby is not there .
  • Ahh the old Lothario.
  • Sure, as long as you clear it with your husband.
  • Why not invite him to your house to eat with you and your husband.
  • Don't tell him no. Do as the others are saying and invite him to dinner at your house, or you AND your husband go to lunch with him. My grandmother and her husband were married a year and a half ago at the ages of 88 and 89 years old. She lost my grandpa 18 years before and he lost his wife 3 years before. They met in church.

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