ANSWERS: 4
  • Thanks Ender. Tough one. I recommend sharing yourself in a heart-to heart communication. I did so and my babe would not leave her family's locale, so I left and made a new life in Boston and although the transition was challenging, I found somebody new who was even better for me than the last. 25 years later and I have no regrets about it.
  • Honestly, having been in this situation and seeming to always make the wrong decision, I would definitely say if you have discussed it with your S/O and he or she is unwilling to move with you, move anyway. Boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go, but you need to look out for number one and make yourself happy as a priority. If a large factor of your life, like where you live, is making you miserable, you don't stand a chance of being truly happy in a relationship either.
  • I asked him to buy me my dream home. He did. I figured, if I have to be stuck in this place of his choosing, at least I can have a home I really love!
  • Ruined my marriage. Weird thing is she wound up leaving and I'm still in the same place

Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy