The main issue here is the maturity level. Plus at 15, no offense, what do you know about love and life? ask any 30 year old how smart they were when they were 15 and i bet most would say they were pretty stupid. Besides whats the rush? are you done with school? do you have long term plans in life?

The issue I see is'nt so much one of being too young as it is the question of, "Is this really necessary?" At 15, the only thing an engagement or marriage can really do is hold you back, and if there really is as much love in your relationship as you say, is a contract really necessary to preserve it? Seriously though, marriage is a great legal contract for insuring that you and your partner will get all the accompanying legal benefits and such, but when you're not even past the age of being a minor in the eyes of the law, it's not really necessary, at all, for anything.

its not that its wrong, it that at the age of 15 we are still figureing out what things we do and dont like. to truly see if he love you the way you think, make him wait to be engaged till after high school. but at 15 you are still changing and so is he. you wont be the same people you are today in a few years. I'm not a parent and im only 20 so what your going through wasnt that long ago for me. i was engaged once. at 17. she cheated on me and a few years later i met someone that makes me even happier than i was befor. only time shows true love. compare this situation to something that seems smaller to you. A few years ago, (middle school) there were different bands and songs you were into. Now today you may not like those bands or songs anymore, reasons why are irrelivent. its proof on how quick the person, mind, and heart can change. Dont rush things like this.

No it's not wrong. It's just hard.

It could be wrong as you cannot be sure that things will change. Major decisions, especially emotional ones, are best not done when you are still under the influence of fluctuating hormones. People change,m love changes, circumstances change. An engagement is like a contract. It says I WILL marry you in the future. Why not wait and get engaged when you are closer to the age when you CAN get married. I fell in love at 14-15 with someone older than me. He allowed me to continue growing up and gainer in maturity, to see if I really did love him. I married him when I was 18 as I personally wanted to wait until them to make sure I was doing the right thing, that things weren't going to change between us. We didn't have sex, we waited. We talked about the future, EVERYTHING about the future. Did we want kids? When? What about employment, where would we like to live, how would we live, what about insurances, goals for the future. Where did we want our family to 'go' in the future. All of this took years to talk about for us and ideas did change in those 4 years. But we are still together after being married 35 years. Those years of going slow and making sure were the foundation of a long good marriage, not just 'I love you' feelings.

Not wrong, but I suggest a VERY long engagement.

im enjoying it though which in my books is great, and im a little more mature then most 15 year olds, alot of stuff under my life and its helped make me who i am and i know he'd wait jsut as long but, puppy dog eyes and nearly tears gives a girl the thought that he means it and i can be enaged quite happily for a few years, i guess it makes it a bit easier to make sure that he's there and feels comfortable before we get married and have kids, and yes we've have been through all of it kids, where we're going to live, what jobs we want ect.

Please don't get engaged at 15. If it's truly love, then you don't need a ring to confirm it. It's not wrong unless it's illegal. I don't think it's morally wrong. I just think you should wait a few more years. Also, I'm 33 and never married. I saved myself from a lot of grief by not marrying a man or two who I really thought was the "one". Now I'm glad I'm 33 and single.

It's not wrong. It might not be a good idea, though.

It's not wrong. It may not be that wise. There's a reason you "come to age" at 18. your mind REALLY does mature and make better decisions when you're older. I'd say wait it out a bit, don't take rash decisions. And, talk with your FAMILY. Or if none are available, with your closest FRIENDS, especially OLDER people. Again, with age comes wisdom, believe it...

getting married is not wrong, but you 15 yrs old, you still a kid and you don't know how to handle your own reponsiblities, marriage is not a joke or a game its not like having a b.f, its serious, your taking your own resposiblities and take a good care of your husband and your children.