ANSWERS: 6
  • Sounds like a classic Fritz Perls "Gestalt"-type o' deal = "unfinished business".
  • I'd say the hurt was so bad that you haven't gotten over it and you keep reliving it for some reason. How long ago was the breakup? Do you blame yourself? :(
  • Your disturbed!
  • Well, he is married so in your subconscious mind, you know that what you want is not readily available to you. You know the truth but you also know what you wish. In the dream the two conflict with your logical reasoning taking ultimate precedence. That sounds really painful. I know how painful that is. Life is unfair really!
  • I had a similar scenerio after a 7 year relationship. My guess is that you hurt so much that your brain spent a tremendous amount of energy trying to sort it all out and retain your sanity. It sounds to me like it is working. Emotional pain is difficult to work through.
  • You really haven't gotten over the emotional upheaval this had on your life.Try writing your feelings down on a peice of paper,be very concise.Think to yourself,how are these emotions helping me or are they hurting me,as you figure this out you may find that the dreams come less often. You may have to do this more than once and it may be painful. I did this when I had a painful event happen and I was having terrible nightmares. It took me about 6 months or so to sort my feelings out,eventually I stopped having the nightmres and I was able to let go of the anger and hurt feelings.

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