ANSWERS: 6
  • Excuse me? My boyfriend is 31, and I'm 23. I love him, and plan to marry him. I'm not messing around with, and would never, and don't think you should assume that these girls are messing around either. They can in fact be serious. Give them the benifit of a doubt.
  • My mom and Dad are a good example. My mom was 22 and my dad was pushing 40 and they have been married for going on 20 years.
  • My husband is 38 and I am 22. We met when I was 19, he was 35. We got along well from the start, became close friends, and started dating seven months or so later (I was 20 at the time). I had never met a guy who seemed to understand me so well as Jason. We could sit and discuss books we'd read, or old black-and-white movies we enjoy, or watch History Channel documentaries for hours on end. We were both from broken homes, had family problems, and shared like views of what we wanted our own families to become. I never felt judged by Jason, like I was with other people. We were just... equal, and understood. I don't know about these other girls, all messing around or what-have-you... I couldn't imagine doing something like that to my husband. I have a wonderful man, who takes care of me, who has provided a home for me and our child to come, and who has devoted himself to me alone. I love my man.
  • Thats how it is really what you are calling "messing around" is more the girls are trying to make a decision of what type of relationship they are looking for. If they stick it out for awhile then I say they know at that point what they want. I see no problem with when the relationship starts as you say they are 21 now. - Sorry typed all that and noticed thats not your question. It could be many different things. You would need to ask each man why.
  • I think they call it "Mid-Life Crisis". Me, I prefer someone closer to my age... Knows the things I know, grew up with the things I did, etc. SOME of these "girls" may just be looking for "sugar-daddies" to take care of them while they grow up. They MAY grow into loving the guys, but meanwhile they want their cake and wanna eat it too. PLEASE NOTE: I DO NOT GENERALIZE (or try very hard not to). It sounds like all the prior answerers have good relationships. Good for all of them. But YOUR group...
  • My boyfriend is 51...I'm 25...I have known him since I was 15 and they day I turned 18 we started dating...I have never messed around on him...even when I was 15 and we were just friends I couldn't go out with someone else because I was always thinking about him....I LOVE YOU BABY!!!

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