Why do some people find it hard to forgive..?
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bradleybell goes to school
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Because they hold bitter grudges that they will not stand down on due to the heinous nature of the origin of the event that caused the act which in turn triggered the episode which was indelibly ensconced within the cerebral cortex as recorded, stored and filed and on high priority for immediate recall. It's easily recalled due to a prompting stimulus.
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I think some people find it hard to forgive because they have problems trusting. I have a friend (he's one of my best friends) that has this terrible problem of holding grudges! Many times in his life he has been betrayed by people close to him, so when he's hurt now, he doesn't forgive as easily. I talk to him and tell him that forgiving is the only to really get through this life. He's gotten much better because he sees how easily I forgive (which sometimes is TOO easy if you know what I mean) and how well I keep relationship by doing so. I hope this helps you. <3 Meggie
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G'day Bradleybell, Thank you for your question. It is because they have been so badly hurt by something that they cannot let go. However, if they did forgive especially in turn for a sincere apology, they would find that the pain is reduced. Regards
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because your afraid of being hurt of from that person again. Even though you may trust them, deep down you will always remember the thing they did to hurt you.
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Some people find it hard to forgive, because it's so hard to forget. Erasing your memory would help erase the pain and ease forgiveness.
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