One of my friends is having a party and she invited one of my ex friends that tends to make me very uncomfortable. I want to go to the party, but I also want to stay back because this girl is invited. What do I do?
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Meg
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If you really want to go, then you should attend your friend's party. Don't let your feelings towards your ex affect you. Say "hi" to your ex, and keep it moving. If you feel that it would be too uncomfortable, then you don't have to go. There will be other people there that you can talk with, so all of your attention won't be focused on her. It's your call.
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Go. If you dont go, the other girl will assume it was because of her and feel good about herself.
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Why would your "friend" invite someone who makes you uncomforable? Was the ex-friend a mutual friend to you and the party-thrower? I just dont understand why that line was crossed... If it turns out that the party-thrower is instigating or being spiteful I wouldnt go at all...who needs games. But if your ex is actually her friend too and she didnt mean any harm to you, I would still go. If you feel anxious or whatever, you can always say goodbye and leave.
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You just said it "your ex friend" so what do you care. Try to look great and feel great with yourself, a Hi to start and end it with, ignore that person you must learn to never allow others to take command of your life. "You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should". Regards
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Go to the party and be civil with the person. If they try to make you feel uncomfortable just walk away from them to another group of people or just leave the party and tell your host that the reason you are leaving is because this person is being a jerk. That way your voice will be heard and your host will understand that the other person is the reason you are leaving and not because the party is lame or anything.
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You go, you dress adorable and have the time of your life. You are going to see the friend having the party, not the people who are invited. Don't let one person stop you from experiencing/enjoying your life. We all have people in our lives who make us feel uncomfortable, the point is being comfortable enough (or acting like you are) comfortable enough with yourself not to let it affect you.
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dont let anybody stop you from having fun, let her or him feel awkward - why should you?
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Go to the party and be pleasant, but not fake, to your ex-friend. Don't stoop to her level by avoiding eye contact or being rude. Hang with other people. You will shine far brighter than anyone who is willing to make people uncomfortable in a public place.
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Go to the party and have fun. Don't worry about who is going to be there. If you don't want to hang out with her that is your own choice. No one is forcing you to not go.
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